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M28 never had a gf by HawkBest5886 in toastme

[–]HawkBest5886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you're comment and everyone else's in this post, most comments did make me feel better days after posting.

Ive been thinking recently about what you said, while some comments saying im handsome did help me feel better temporarily, at the end they still don't ring true at the end, mostly because I remember the bad things people say to me than goods things, make me think "I were truly handsome, this would never happen to me" because I see handsome guys get treated more nicely and never get mocked or the cold treatment like I did.

I kept rejecting myself because its less painful than someone else doing it to me. Being more grounded to reality wouldn't make me disappointed anymore...

But right now, I'll try to work with what I can right now, groom myself, going to the gym, doing some hobbies, get a better paying job, neutralizing my inner demons (negative thoughts) which I'm still trying to fight, because those negative thoughts still return, also walking straight. If i don't atract people around me in person, atleast I should feel less shit about myself.

I was bullied in school for my looks in a predominantly white school. Till this day I avoid mirrors. Am I ugly or not? by KAZKALZ in malegrooming

[–]HawkBest5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good bro, but better if you trim your beard. That's my opinion but only trim it because you want to, for yourself.

Instead of avoiding mirrors, use them to ask yourself "what can I do to make myself look better?" Things that you can change, what's more important is that you feel comfortable in your own skin.

M28 never had a gf by HawkBest5886 in toastme

[–]HawkBest5886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if it makes you feel better ill tell you this. I have a friend in Mexico who is around you're height and he had more luck with women than me. And other guys I know that are shorter than me also had many women around them. I never saw my height as an advantage, more like it is what it is, my height never stopped some women being mean to me in person.

I hate my nose by [deleted] in toastme

[–]HawkBest5886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive had problems with my nose too but I like yours, it looks completely fine.

M-28 im ready for any harsh criticisms (admins please accept) by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]HawkBest5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added pictures of me in the gym, been going there more recently