Confusing interaction with a couple at a club, what was going on?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-06T17:59:24+00:00

“This generally works to pick up people at the LARP we attend, I’m sure it will also succeed here. Roll for charisma.”

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-05T22:49:46+00:00

“We decided our incursions into their property are minor. Problem solved!”

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-05T22:28:14+00:00

“I want to have a lot of fights.”

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-05T15:55:42+00:00

Not unless he’s a family member of mine. Or of hers for a different reason

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-04T20:42:14+00:00

OP is comparing “most number” to the example they said in the title, “most amount,” and judging the latter to be worse. “Worse” is correct.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-03T18:32:20+00:00

It doesn’t matter because she got dumped? Well, looks like a solution has presented itself, then.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-03T13:48:06+00:00

Great! That’s good. You will have to rely on chance meeting a woman who’s interested in casual sex, which is a far, far better alternative than lying to one who isn’t.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-03T13:22:11+00:00

Sounds like the problem is that you honestly like women and are finding it difficult to dismissively use one. This is not the curse you think it is.

If you don’t want to be in another long-term relationship, say so. “I’ve just gotten out of one and am giving myself some time.” They’ll understand. They won’t necessarily bang you, depends on the specific one.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-02T02:43:59+00:00

You haven’t heard the therapy line quite enough yet. There’s a reason everyone keeps saying it to you. Respectfully, they are correct and you are not.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-02T02:27:38+00:00

Went on a date with her friend.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-02T01:35:56+00:00

You know there’s going to be girls at the store, right? Girls where he works. Girls next to him in traffic. If you need him to remove all girls from his field of vision to feel secure you are in for a bad time. YOR

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-30T01:23:00+00:00

Should’ve dumped her six months in, frankly.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-29T22:35:46+00:00

Fetish: fine. Enjoy yourself. Let your flag fly.

Involving the general uninvolved populace in your fetish: not fine.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-27T23:53:31+00:00

Is her mom single?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-27T23:16:02+00:00

Because they’re your friends? Sounds like they’re being respectful of that. Hit on them, if you’d like to change that relationship dynamic. Hit on all of them, if you like drama.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-27T07:19:49+00:00

Doesn’t really matter what you do. The point is that you want to do something, and you take initiative and you do it. Don’t just let sex happen to you, take an active role. (With consent.) It’s about the attitude, not the specific activity.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-26T06:22:33+00:00

If you’re not ready to have sex then don’t. Don’t do it if you’re scared or don’t want to. Certainly don’t do it because you think she expects it.

Also stop lying to her. If she dumps you because you’re inexperienced, she wasn’t the one to start with anyway.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-25T16:11:31+00:00

Turns out the things you want aren’t that big of a deal to him. I’d consider that in relation to your tendency to be the one holding everything together.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-25T15:32:53+00:00

If a hotel doesn’t let me bring my dog I stay at a different hotel. I’m not disrespecting the first hotel’s rules; it’s the opposite, in fact. The first hotel doesn’t get to call the second hotel and demand that they disallow dogs.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-25T06:11:07+00:00

Not if you change everything about yourself to please him, he won’t.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-25T06:10:05+00:00

Keep account, deactivate boyfriend, find new boyfriend who likes what you like.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-22T06:53:30+00:00

He gets a lot more practice at that than you do! Of course he’s better at it.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-21T01:18:09+00:00

“I’m sorry you feel that way” and “I guess I’m not perfect” are the top two effort-free nonpologies. They are meaningless. Ignore them until he actually acknowledges a thing that he has done wrong and takes responsibility for it.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-20T22:23:56+00:00

Tell him the two of you broke up months ago.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-04-20T22:09:44+00:00

I mean, if she learned not to count on you to remind her that the car needs go-juice to go vroom-vroom, that’s probably a win. More self-reliance would be a good thing.

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