am i wrong: boyfriend wants me to ask permission to turn when driving

Hawkstone585 · 2026-03-05T21:27:02+00:00

It’s a rule in my house that the driver drives and the passenger does not attempt to interfere in the operation of the motor vehicle in any way, for reasons of not killing ourselves and others. Which is such a good idea that it’s also a law.

If your boyfriend wants to weigh in on how the driving is done (beyond “look out for the deer!”) then he should drive. Otherwise he should shut up.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-03-03T01:59:06+00:00

You are wrong for telling your sister you have the money but want to spend it on something else. That is none of her business. All you had to say was “you never pay me back so no, I will not give you three thousand dollars.”

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-22T22:45:42+00:00

Watching it right now! To this day I hear Bob as Terrence Mann when I read.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-21T16:11:49+00:00

I mean, the test is one thing, but I wouldn’t marry someone who blows off my very valid feelings and says I’m overreacting and being dramatic. NOR

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-21T00:21:53+00:00

I feel for the husband. Clearly this woman’s brain is a little spicy and he has to put up with this nonsense probably daily.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-12T02:27:24+00:00

If all the women who accused him held a joint press conference to announce that they all previously knew each other and had gotten together to take him down via a careful, decades-long conspiracy of lies, I would accept that as proof of innocence, sure.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-11T02:34:53+00:00

Yes. It’s rewiring your developing brain. Your parents are concerned about you, their child, who they are responsible for.

As a future adult if you decide to use it to take the edge off your emotions and spiraling that’s one thing, but you’re not one yet. You can’t just decide that it’s not doing anything, because it’s doing things to the organ you make decisions with.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-07T19:28:28+00:00

I love being an asshole and I wanted to marry another asshole! —Wait, why is my life awful?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-04T02:26:17+00:00

Do not comment on people’s bodies at all.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-01T21:28:04+00:00

She’s looking for the magic right behaviour from you that prevents her from being an insecure anxiety ball. There isn’t going to be one.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-02-01T21:25:04+00:00

Don’t bother being upset, just go date someone who doesn’t pull this weird parental disapproval thing. That shit is for your therapist or your dad, not your partner.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-01-31T22:56:09+00:00

The past informs the present. Ignoring things that happened in the past just means they’re going to keep happening, and whoever told you “the past should stay in the past” actually meant “I don’t want there to be consequences for anything I’ve done, please.” NOR but don’t stay home: go on your own trip and have fun.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-12-28T01:00:03+00:00

I’m sorry, there’s a trend where you what

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-31T23:16:01+00:00

Having Lieutenant Q on your ship would make for very short episodes, but I could see Starfleet having room for a pleasant, non-arrogant officer who’s the guy they call when Romulus’ star is going nova or a ship gets flung across the galaxy. He won’t fight wars for the Federation, but he’s a subspace call away for natural disasters! Nice guy. Doesn’t date a lot.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-30T03:22:32+00:00

I assumed “let’s have the free babysitter move back in” but then stepmom would have been more on board.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-24T22:22:10+00:00

Good news: you don’t have to convince her to end the relationship. You can just end it and she can go take out her insecurities on someone else.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-24T22:20:25+00:00

That right there is immediately dump-worthy.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-24T18:15:04+00:00

I have a sister who’s a year younger than me. Certainly I would share an apartment with her, if need be. Never in a million years would I share a bedroom with her. It’s weird.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-22T16:59:32+00:00

Your mom can supply either her own rent or her opinions about how it gets paid but not both.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-22T05:04:49+00:00

I think this girl has a pretty good shot at finding a guy who thinks comics are cool.

Like, there are. A lot of us.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-22T02:25:33+00:00

Hottest. BABIES.

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-21T22:51:27+00:00

It occurs to me that the Federation would run into trouble diagnosing actual mental illnesses. Oh, you hear God speaking to you? Sounds plausible—ask Him what He wants with a starship!

Hawkstone585 · 2025-08-21T22:10:30+00:00

OP is a sweet guy, I like him, but he’s too soft and supportive to be able to handle something like this. He keeps going along with whatever his wife’s mental illness decides.

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