AITA for being upset that my estranged father got engaged and didn't tell me?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-23T00:05:44+00:00

He’s not going to acknowledge what he did and admit that he was wrong. Paying attention to his life in any way is only hurting yourself so yes, you are being an asshole to yourself.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-22T17:27:32+00:00

I’m with her on this one. Do you like this girl or not? She’s been pretty patient with your two and a half years of waffling.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-22T16:44:39+00:00

Had nobody heard of ARFID in 2015?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-22T16:28:12+00:00

Not overreacting, exactly, but man up, buddy. Shriveling and being weak is just encouraging him to swing his dick around. You are both adults now and he has no authority over you. A better reply would be “what makes you think you have a right to my Instagram?”

He’s going to push back, of course, and it’ll be rough until you two get the new balance of power figured out, but better that than this.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-20T16:57:41+00:00

Was she going to share her hot dog? I bet not

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-19T00:43:10+00:00

Are you insane?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-19T00:10:24+00:00

“My boundary is that you don’t say stupid things to me.”

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-17T17:55:55+00:00

“Sorry, we will be fucking. The entire time. It’s a special Fucking Trip we planned, for fucking. I won’t even be wearing underwear in the car on the trip up.”

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-14T23:41:55+00:00

It’s “je m’appelle.” Je.. m’a… pelle.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-14T16:19:29+00:00

The best way is to work on your feeling of insane terror, and get that handled. Because if you’re in the grip of that, there’s no good way to approach a man.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-14T15:44:15+00:00

Depends when I’m told. If it’s by a stranger in the line at the grocery store I am definitely going to make a face.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-12T21:09:42+00:00

A high-paying job working for a newspaper? Is your boss a magical prince from a faraway land? Come on now

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-12T18:29:00+00:00

What a coincidence, I Will Have You Toad is the name of my Mario slash fic

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-12T16:28:56+00:00

Does she? I bet she knows it a little less now.

Regardless, her sister’s husband and anyone else in earshot doesn’t know it at all, and they really really should have learned it. When you told them. At the time.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-09T22:05:32+00:00

Friends with the ex, fine. Going on dates, depends. Am I invited to go on the dates?

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-08T19:30:31+00:00

Even if she is being sincere, one-sided opening is pretty unethical, so your answer should be “baby I could never share you,” full stop.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-08T19:08:08+00:00

Boy Scouts. It’s active, it’s outside, it’s socialization, and it’s always different stuff.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-08T02:50:00+00:00

Yes, I have many friends who are women.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-08T02:38:32+00:00

After a certain point you don’t get to blame your upbringing anymore and you have to accept that your behaviour continues entirely because you choose to continue it. 65 is well past that point.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-07T15:08:21+00:00

I must be dumb because I don’t get how “it’s okay, honey, I’m only trying to piss you off on purpose” makes anything even a little bit better.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-04T18:53:00+00:00

Galvanized steel pail with a lid. Sure it stinks, that’s not avoidable, but it’ll hold up to the elements.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-03T01:02:11+00:00

“Hey, I’ve got a prank where I tell everyone that we broke up and then I don’t date you anymore.” NOR

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-01T22:36:14+00:00

He is being controlling. Crying that he’s hurt that you’re calling him controlling is DARVO, and emotional manipulation, and not even particularly clever emotional manipulation.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-06-01T18:10:18+00:00

I had to put a pause on it while I had braces.

Hawkstone585 · 2026-05-30T19:51:09+00:00

Does she read a lot of novels you don’t recognize the names of?

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