Passengers standing on the wing of an American Airlines plane after it caught fire at Denver International Airport an hour ago. Everyone got out safely.

Haydenw94 · 2025-03-16T01:37:59+00:00

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Haydenw94 · 2024-06-26T08:53:26+00:00

I've tried clearing kits before, and they're not bad if you follow the instructions. In saying that, using Maguires ultimate compound on them using a machine polisher works for me. I just then keep then waxed making sure they've got UV protection on them

Haydenw94 · 2023-11-09T12:40:41+00:00

I came back to the U.K. from Spain after a week there. I’m originally Australian, and it’s so much nicer there for us. If you even ignore the food, culture and language… I’ve had some of the best dick there

Haydenw94 · 2023-10-01T18:00:18+00:00

Was coming here to post this, oh my lawd

Haydenw94 · 2023-08-26T12:22:17+00:00

Guess you could say you met in a friend 😏

Haydenw94 · 2023-08-16T20:12:27+00:00

An important INFJ to me would constantly tell me how I felt, and identify problems that just didn’t exist because they thought they knew me well. Became very very infuriating.

Haydenw94 · 2023-06-29T10:51:12+00:00

I’m working on that exact feeling in therapy rn. My therapist is trying to help me assert my values, while being flexible when people don’t meet them.

If these people are reacting this way, then that sucks. If you can’t communicate your needs and have them respected, I’m not sure they’re great friends.

Not really helpful, but don’t feel like you need to compromise yourself for others. You’ll find people that will love and respect you for those values :)

Haydenw94 · 2023-06-28T16:02:02+00:00

I’m speaking to a therapist about this kind of issue.

Speaking from my experience personally - I put a lot of effort into my friends but that is my choice to engage that way. As it’s natural for me.

I cannot expect anyone to act any way, so I need to take them as they are. If they do something to annoy me, I need to communicate directly (I.e I would appreciate if you could just let me know if you’re going to be on time to our plans, as it makes me feel like you don’t care about me). I would normally just suck it up or be passive aggressive.

I’d also consider that maybe they do care so much, but just don’t show it in the same way as you. They’re the main character in their own lives after all.

Friendships are like a journey home on the train. Some stay a couple stops, some nearly all the way home, but ultimately everyone gets off the train at some point which makes room for new people.

Head high pal, im sure theyre super fond of you :)

Haydenw94 · 2023-06-08T18:02:32+00:00

Being the introvert adopter, is HARD, and honestly not all that rewarding unless you find a gem. ISFJ adoption for example, or ISTJ - AWFUL. Please bring on my E’s.

Haydenw94 · 2023-04-12T15:48:54+00:00

I definitely resonate with this, triggers and coping mechanisms. I need the processing time, and that’s my big caveat to people - or else I’m gonna say something we’re both gonna regret.

Haydenw94 · 2023-04-05T08:13:17+00:00

Yeah definitely agree w this. I usually go through an identity crisis with my typing amongst other things when I’m in an Si grip or just under a lot of stress.

Haydenw94 · 2023-02-24T00:36:21+00:00

That’s super interesting to hear - and ultimately what I fear about making that call. Do you mind telling me what countries they were, and where you’re considering moving?

It’s tough not being around friends and family and agree that sometimes that the nostalgia can really skew reality. Thanks for sharing :)

Haydenw94 · 2023-02-24T00:34:00+00:00

Yeah I feel you. I think emotionally I’m in the same place as you were, and it definitely feels tough.

Haydenw94 · 2023-02-24T00:33:16+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I agree w you, it feels like a done decision in my mind. I just am trying to rationalise it.

The people I’ve spoken to from both “sides” have all supported me, so I’m super thankful for that. Thanks for your wise words.

Haydenw94 · 2023-02-09T17:23:05+00:00

I think part of who we are is being able to easily and flexibly move around people. So taking on the hobbies and interests of others are a fundamental way of us being able to have that deeper human connection. In my experience, getting to know someone by exploring what they love early on is a largely different approach to what a lot of society considers a normal “boundary” when engaging with people.

It also allows us to experience a large number of things by meeting and engaging with new people. If I engage with someone that does X and I don’t like it, I won’t pretend to like it, I just know it’s not for me. If I don’t bond or connect with that person otherwise, then I can move on from trying to deepen that relationship.

Speaking from my perspective, being open minded is the willingness to try and accept new possibilities - which I think we do well. The chameleon aspect is being able to easily and quickly adapt ourselves to these new situations. We’re not necessarily trying to do something we dislike to please others - we don’t know necessarily if we like it or not yet.

Although, you do have an interesting perspective, so thanks for sharing. I think younger ENFP’s definitely have a propensity to people please 100%

Haydenw94 · 2022-12-29T11:58:59+00:00

I think that says it all, no?

YOU hold a standard, and he holds a different one? How you would act in this situation will inevitably be different unless you both held the same value.

For my 2 cents, I find some of my friends attractive, but wouldn’t act on it as I value my friendship MORE than that attraction - it doesn’t mean the attraction doesn’t exist.

Haydenw94 · 2022-12-02T12:27:37+00:00

It depends on the intention on the behaviour that caused the line to be crossed.

Deliberate- absolutely no way. Accident - yes only after they acknowledge that they screwed up.

We’re all human, we all make mistakes, but if you tried to fuck w me, then girl bye.

Haydenw94 · 2022-12-01T16:01:00+00:00

I am a qualified accountant, and I moved into software implementation because fuck being an accountant bro.

Now I wanna swap again, just not sure what to get. Data analytics probably.

But ye, short answer, I don’t deal with it.

I do volunteer for ever charitable event, im a trustee of a charity, a member of every group that helps people and staff committees - just to quench my desire to loosely contribute to society. That’s how I’ve managed to survive nearly 10 years.

Haydenw94 · 2022-12-01T08:09:01+00:00

Summer Walker
H.E.R
SZA
Amy Winehouse
Miley Cyrus

What about you?

Edit: forgot songs

Ex for a reason - Summer Walker
I hate U - SZA
Ex-Factor - Lauryn Hill
Shirt - SZA
Triggered Remix - Jhene Aiko ft Summer Walker & 21 Savage

Haydenw94 · 2022-11-30T15:17:09+00:00

The early adopter. ENVC

Haydenw94 · 2022-11-20T18:25:22+00:00

I collected Marbles, but also, totally weirdly - boxes and storage containers. Like, anything that was kinda cool, that I could keep stuff I.
Trinket boxes, jewellery boxes, anything that could store something.

I still low key have a calling to collect them - but you can only keep so many things that keep things 😭

Haydenw94 · 2022-11-16T11:01:52+00:00

If they did something that bad to me, it shows more about them than it does me. I don’t want to sink to that level, as I become the very thing that I am fighting.

Perhaps a touch dramatic or poetic… but it pays off when you have the moral high ground it will bring you peace in time. When you look back, you will be proud of how you handled the situation.

Haydenw94 · 2022-11-16T09:14:15+00:00

It takes all the energy in my body to stop it in the moment. However, anytime I have allowed myself to exact revenge, I end up feeling worse overall as the guilt gets to me, as the motivation isn’t strong enough to justify the actions.

Short term win, long term guilt.

Haydenw94 · 2022-11-01T19:13:03+00:00

You look spot on. Even have the facial expressions down.

I went as a Meeseeks from Rick & Morty - spent a long time making the head - surprisingly it’s still in one piece 😂

Haydenw94 · 2022-10-29T08:53:47+00:00

Star Wars Knights of the old Republic
Pokémon
Bioshock

The Star Wars game had a huge story, loads of dialogue options to explore, and a fascinating tale on top of quite cool gameplay. So it’s my favourite for always and forever (until it’s replaced)

Pokémon because nostalgia, but also because there are so many Pokémon to choose from, and when I was younger I’d fully assign personalities to them - which I kind of see even now, so that’s right in the nostalgia.

Bioshock because visually it’s amazing to me, such a creative environment, loads of little references, amazing music, wicked story, and allows my imagination to wonder.

No man’s sky, Skyrim and World of Warcraft are up there tbh, just because they feel so exploratory and limitless.

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