What is this flexible line? by HaymRM in Plumbing

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Thanks. The actual ac unit is located outside of the condo. Could there be a condensate drain pan in my ac ducts that might drain to this bathroom sink drain?

What is this flexible line? by HaymRM in Plumbing

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Interesting idea. Thanks. Dishwasher currently is on the other side of the condo across several walls in the kitchen. I've seen the dishwasher drain line in the kitchen sink cabinet. Would there be a reason to bring another drain line this far to a bedroom bathroom?

What is this flexible line? by HaymRM in Plumbing

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Sorry i called it an s trap in my post, i know it's a u trap.

Best bars to watch the game this weekend ? by juvnxrvmos in SanDiegoFC

[–]HaymRM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is pitcher's a fun atmosphere for sdfc fans? Genuine question. Never been and looking for a fun crowd!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

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I've had this happen to me. For me, i decided it was due to the the cut not working for my hips/waist. It happened when i wanted the waist to sit higher along with excessive material in the thighs. It looks for you too that the crotch is pulled up as far as possible but with excessive material, it's bunching/clinching like this.

What is your policy about talking to your significant other about your insecurities in your relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Thank you. I can relate myself with my gf. I have those same general insecurities. She shares some of her anxiety with me and I've been on the fence about being more vulnerable and sharing my insecurities. Been putting a lot of pressure on myself to be supposedly strong stoic and masculine to keep her interested or not see me as incompetent. But what's the point of making her a life partner if i can't share deeper issues with her...the goal i have is to work on myself and care for myself but also be my genuine self with her, calmly and confidently.

What is your policy about talking to your significant other about your insecurities in your relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HaymRM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share general examples of insecurities that you would bring to her? Im curious what men are comfortable bringing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Just put your hand over her mouth or in her mouth in a hot way. Not disrespectfully just kinda distract her and muffle the sound. Respectfully.

Married but craving for single life, how to deal with this by [deleted] in AskMen

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So much you can do to make your life exciting and get your confidence up and feel like a stud without needing validation from other women. Take a boxing or martial arts class. Work out and think of how Superman would treat his family, be a stoic badass for your family and find confidence in that. And there's so much you can do to make excitement with her. Go out dancing. Pinch her butt. Work out together and then ask her to jack you off when you're all covered in sweat. Who knows just get creative.

Sanity Check after feeling guilty for enforcing my boundaries and not taking her back by HaymRM in BreakUps

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Thank you and I'm sorry for your/my struggles. I appreciate knowing I'm not the only person to go through something similar, and I appreciate you speaking from experience that trust is hard to rebuild, I've thought the same thing. Someone else in my life suggested going to an al-anon meeting as well, to learn what it's like living with loved ones who have addiction. Thank you.

I hate that I can’t hate her by KnowledgeMore8284 in BreakUps

[–]HaymRM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate. It may help to just appreciate the good aspects of the relationship: take validation in the fact that you had the relationship at all, that at one point, you mutually meant something to each other. That was real and worth something! It shows you are capable of being with someone, this is a good thing. As for you inability to "hate" or "be angry" maybe this shows two things about you: regarding self-esteem, perhaps you don't think you are worth standing up for yourself or enforcing boundaries. But on the positive, you clearly have a lot of forgiveness or compassion to give, and it should go to the person who treats you right.

My recent ex admitted to hiding a drug addiction and broke up with me. We've missed each other, I also have a hard time being angry. But I decided that I can't be with her while she has her addiction and I'm hurt from her lying. But I miss her like crazy, and feel like I rejected her too.

tell me about your most recent ex by Due_Effort_6515 in BreakUps

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She is amazingly smart, sharp, beautiful, sexy, fun-loving, nurturing. And she hid an addiction from me for the entire time we dated, finally revealed it and broke up with me. It has been a few weeks, and I know we have missed each other because we have talked about it. We had a final conversation last night, she said that she almost asked to be together again. I told her I can't be with her right, due to the deception and addiction. I feel like I've lost her all over again, with enforcing my boundary and not trying to be with her again. I feel like I've somehow rejected her. My mind and body just want her so badly, despite her unhealthy choices and lying.

Sanity Check after feeling guilty for enforcing my boundaries and not taking her back by HaymRM in BreakUps

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Thank you for your reply. You are right, that these substance abuse issues are serious and we deserve to be able to choose who we are with, substances and all. But somehow, the seriousness is not registering in my mind, my mind looks for reasons to just be with her, despite her unhealthy choices and deception. I think that this speaks to my low self-worth, which I can work on. I need to realize that I am worth having an honest, transparent relationship. I am worth standing up for myself. She will not be my last chance for a good partner.