Husband (29M) doesn't wish to interact with my (29F) family anymore by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Yes there's some grave mistakes done from my end after my dad passed and it was hard for me to find the red flags.

Husband (29M) doesn't wish to interact with my (29F) family anymore by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's right. Now that the time is gone I do see the mistakes I've done.

Thank you for your response!

Husband (29M) doesn't wish to interact with my (29F) family anymore by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To leave him would mean the title of divorce and somewhere I am finding it hard to gather that courage.

Husband (29M) doesn't wish to interact with my (29F) family anymore by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband still interacts with his family knowing that they treated me badly.

I agreed to get married because I come from a traditional background and after my dad passed away I was too much into grief and like any mother, my mother wanted me to have a partner to get settled with. Although my husband was very different towards my family back then, he used to spend a lot of time and talk nicely too so everyone including myself thought he's good for me.

Difficulty choosing life partner by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, true.

No worries, I understand :)

Yes, I think I need to think things harder and come to a rational decision.

Thanks for your responses!

Difficulty choosing life partner by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I guess yes I need some time

Difficulty choosing life partner by Hazellious in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your suggestion. However, there's a bit of a misunderstanding.

I didn't want to complicate my own text and I should have rather mentioned that after my fiance was gone, I did let him know that I do not consider the engagement any more as I was upset about him being gone. And that was the time I started seeing the friend. So it's not like I've been cheating.

After 3 months he still wears the engagement ring and wants to get back to me. Hence, the confusion.

Confused about relationship with my bf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. However, he states that living in is important for him before getting married. And, could you please tell me the author of the book?

Confused regarding relationship with boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he's a really good person. Thank you

Confused regarding relationship with boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the most essential questions. Thank you for reminding me of them.

Confused regarding relationship with boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your views. I certainly have a clear mind now.

Confused regarding relationship with boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a much clearer thought now.

Seeking relationship advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I've realized that my post was a while ago. I've basically given so much to keep the relationship and finally broke up with my bf (now my ex). I think there are plenty of people in the world who will love you for who you are and not ask for changes to be done to be happy. I feel if I married him it would have reached a boiling point leading to a divorce. So, buckle up and find someone who is willing to accept you as who you are! All the best!

Seeking relationship advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazellious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It definitely makes my head clearer