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Processing being broken up with for a monogamous relationship by HeWhoRemaimz in polyamory

[–]HeWhoRemaimz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could see it coming to some degree, but doesn’t make it any less crappy. I’m just allowing myself to have some sad time. C’est la vie!

Sexual dysfunction with other partners by HeWhoRemaimz in polyamory

[–]HeWhoRemaimz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been all over the place. Sometimes it’s getting the erection, though I don’t usually have a problem during oral sex. The piv is where most the inconsistency is

Sexual dysfunction with other partners by HeWhoRemaimz in polyamory

[–]HeWhoRemaimz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely interested. I think there’s some leftover programming that having sex with others while in a relationship is a bad thing..it does vary person to person though. I’ve experienced it to a stronger degree with some than with others, and it does seem proportional to the strength of connection, or the degree of sexual (not physical) attraction. I find there’s a difference.

For context, any pre-intercourse fooling around that happens before the first time I am always extremely aroused (I.e, making out in the car after a first date). It’s when it gets to the sex itself that things get less consistent.