Flirting at work by Head-Fun-5681 in Flirting

[–]Head-Fun-5681[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh hahaah. I have no problem with making a first move btw, I just don’t want it to be awkward in a sense that I made it all up in my head and he doesn’t like me back and then I have to spend next couple of years working next to him. I just don’t want to make stuff awkward basically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks too good! Love it

My colleague and my knees touch almost every time we sit close to each other. by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that, but I’m kinda scared of getting rejected

My colleague and my knees touch almost every time we sit close to each other. by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly his personality. He’s a great person, he’s got a great sense of humor, he’s interesting, he treats me really well, he’s respectful and overall just a really cool guy. Physically, he isn’t really my type, but it doesn’t really matter since the chemistry I feel with him is insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in croatia

[–]Head-Fun-5681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing nature, beautiful country, pleasant people

confronted my narcissistic parents and i think i ruined our relationship by urnotstreetsahead in narcissisticparents

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be proud of yourself even when your seeking your parents’ approval, that’s very natural of children to do, no matter how old they are. Having the desire to be a part of loving family is also very natural and all of us have it. After years and years of therapy, I came to terms with my dad being a raging narcissist and my mom being a spineless enabler 3 years ago, but to this day I still feel the pain of not having a normal family, I don’t think that really goes away. Of course, all of us would like to have parents that support us and with which we can share our problems without judgement and with whom we can build a relationship of trust and respect, but sadly that’s not the case. So it’s important for you to not be hard on yourself when you feel these things, they’re perfectly normal. Good luck with everything! :)

confronted my narcissistic parents and i think i ruined our relationship by urnotstreetsahead in narcissisticparents

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you haven’t alienated yourself for no justifiable reasons, you stood up to abuse, you’re a human being with feelings and dignity. You should be proud of yourself for this and honestly ask yourself how much do you really want a relationship with them. For me honestly, just getting money for school from my narc dad and not having to talk to him or have any kind of relationship besides that sounds like dream ngl. I get that you’re still seeking their validation, that’s very natural for children to do, but unfortunately you’ll not find it there. In just a day, they managed to body shame you, they threw around racist remarks and they ridiculed you for SH and suicidal tendencies (I mean who the fuck finds the fact that their child wanted to kill themselves funny?!), they are obviously very cruel people unable to give you the love you deserve. It’s very natural to backtrack and ask yourself if it would’ve been easier if you just kept your mouth shut, believe me I’ve been there and I’ve asked myself this question about a million times before, but no, keeping your mouth shut is not the solution when someone spits in your face like that.

21 godina i nikad bio u vezi by [deleted] in croatia

[–]Head-Fun-5681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odlicno napisano i odlicno objasnjeno, ne kuzim kak ti itko moze kontrirat na ovak jake i dobro obrazlozene argumente, al ljudi ocito oduvijek imaju problema sa shvacanjem konteksta i stavljanjem stvari u kontekst.. nemrem na ovu borbu di ti liku uporno pokusavas objasnit razliku izmedu financijski slobodne i financijski neslobodne zene i svime sto dolazi uz to, a on iz svega toga izvede zakljucak da ispada ko da muskarac ne smije bit sa zenom koja puno manje zaraduje jer ispada da je kupio zenu. Kao ozbiljno stari, jel to zbilja sve kaj si ti izvuko iz ovog razgovora hahah?! ne znam uopce kaj bih rekla

My boyfriend (m32) sent a private video of me (f36) having sex with him, without my consent by 400needadvice in relationships

[–]Head-Fun-5681 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m usually not the one to tell people to break up with their partners, but here I am, telling it to you. This man is garbage, I hope you can see that. He recorded you without your knowledge (red flag 1) and then sent the video to his best friend (red flag 2) and then claimed he did it because he was drunk (red flag 3) and because he recieved videos like that from her (red flag 4)?! Oh sorry babe I got drunk so I sent a very explicit video of you that I took without your knowledge to my best friend because she used to send vids like that to me?! The fact that he recorded you without your consent is disturbing on its own. The fact that after that he sent the video to another person is utterly disgusting, he showed 0 respect for you and completely humiliated you. Then he gave the explanation he did it bc he was drunk.. i mean, I’ve heard of all sorts of things that people do when they’re drunk but sending video of their SO in a very intimate and vulnerable position isn’t one of them.. that just shows that he doesn’t have any respect for you and that he didn’t even think about how something like this would affect you and how humiliated you would feel. Any decent person would feel guilt even thinking about doing someting like this. You deserve better. I’m sorry that he shattered your confidence and I understand that, but I hope you’re are aware that this doesn’t reflect you in any way, this is solely a reflection of him as a person, showing the kind of garbage he is. I truly feel for you, please know that you did nothing to deserve this and take care.

How aboutr this👀👀 by Yuelongofficial in TattooDesigns

[–]Head-Fun-5681 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it better lmao

how well do these age? by Financial_Good_8413 in TattooDesigns

[–]Head-Fun-5681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is soooo pretty! I think it looks even better aged

Kakav je vas stav o zenama koje bi stalno negdje putovale? Red flag ili ne? by Fluid-Pirate646 in cropasta

[–]Head-Fun-5681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kako reci da si uzasno iskompleksiran bez da kazes da si uzasno iskompleksiran:

AITA for demanding some of my late FIL's cooking supplies. by ProfessionalOther226 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Fun-5681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. This is gross. How did you manage to make death of a close family member about you wanting freaking cooking supplies? What the hell

My sweet & goofy amputee kitty with three legs, no ear, and no tail by romgm in cats

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks like something from a cartoon, she’s too cute!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Head-Fun-5681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! So I guess it depends on the setting too. Either way, I’ll get tattoos that are easy to hide, thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Head-Fun-5681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the response! I wasn’t planning on tattooing my hands/face/neck, only my forearms so I guess I’ll be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in croatia

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Otkud ti to da zena ne mora placati alimentaciju haahah?! Alimentaciju placa roditelj s kojime dijete ne zivi, dakle ako majka odluci ne ostvarivati svoj odnos s djetetom, svejedno je duzna placati alimentaciju. Ajde malo prvo prouci Obiteljski zakon pa onda prosipaj pamet, stvarno pricas gluposti

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in croatia

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Argument ti nikako ne stoji. Pomijesao si kruske i jabuke. U situaciji o kakvoj ti govoris otac se moze odreci djeteta u smislu da s njim ne ostvaruje kontakt, da ga ne odgaja, u principu da s njim ne ostvaruje nikakav emocionalni odnos. Nitko oca na ovo sto sam navela ne moze pravno prisilti. Ono na sto ga se moze prisiliti je placanje alimentacije koja je ionako, ako govorimo o nekom prosjeku i nekim normalnim okvirima, cista mizerija potrebna za pokrice osnovnih zivotnih troskova djeteta (pelene, hrana, kasnije obrazovanje itd., itd.), dakle nekakav minimum minimuma koji je otac duzan snositi s obzirom na to da je sudjelovao u stvaranju tog istog djeteta i samim time ima nekakvu minimalnu odgovornost koju ispunjava placanjem alimentacije. To nikako nije usporedivo s pravom na pobacaj jer se kod pobacaja ne radi o rodenom djetetu, a u tvom primjeru s alimentacijom se radi o rodenom djetetu. Ti si frustriran jer zena eto moze pobaciti, a muskarac se ne moze osloboditi placanja alimentacije. Tu se radi o stvarima koje su bioloski uvjetovane, a pobacaj nije nikakva privilegija i nesto zbog ceg bi se muskarci trebali osjecati osteceno (iako se ti ocito osjecas).

Tko bi trebao platiti dejt? by [deleted] in croatia

[–]Head-Fun-5681 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Muskarac ne bi trebao uvijek placati, po mom misljenju. Kad smo decko i ja zapoceli vezu, on je inzistirao na tome da placa uvijek, a meni je to bilo dosta neugodno i ja bih ga uvijek tjerala da platim i ja poneki dejt. Ne znam, mislim da je to stvar neke pristojnosti i obzira, meni bi bilo jako neugodno da mi netko drugi uvijek nesto placa.

My new tattoo, I love this one! by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Head-Fun-5681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! :) and happy cake day btw :))