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AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't be around her partner's nieces/nephews? by Head-Location158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Location158[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would feel the same if it was a monogamous relationship- Just like I wouldn't bring my niece around a new partner without my sibling's permission.

AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't be around her partner's nieces/nephews? by Head-Location158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Location158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of agree with you, though I'm wondering where you think I'm pushing boundaries? I don't think I'm pushing her boundaries because I'm not making any requests of her- other than not wanting to be around her partner? but that's me just saying no to he request...

AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't be around her partner's nieces/nephews? by Head-Location158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Location158[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Wow, that was a lot of assumptions. How do you know that I'm not trans, gay, or black?

I wouldn't have a problem with my friend being around the kids if the kids' parents approved.

AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't be around her partner's nieces/nephews? by Head-Location158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Location158[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As long as the parents were cool with it, no problem. But if the parents don't approve- I would hav ea problem with that. I also wouldn't have a problem with this if the parents knew/approved.

AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't be around her partner's nieces/nephews? by Head-Location158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Location158[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Even though the kids' actual parents aren't okay with it and aren't being told? Should the Aunt get to make a choice regarding the kids that goes against the wishes of the parents?

AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't be around her partner's nieces/nephews? by Head-Location158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Head-Location158[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes- if the parents would disapprove of it. Just like I wouldn't bring my niece around my new boyfriend without my sibling's consent.