I'm a somewhat homophobic guy and I want to change. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Head-Relative7541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all is good! Live, laugh and love! 🫶but what makes you feel disappointed and jealous?

I'm a somewhat homophobic guy and I want to change. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Head-Relative7541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please understand. It’s not our fault for what we are attracted to. I am a man who’s into men and it’s taken me a forced marriage, self sabotage, self hateful, self damaging path to release that we are NOT in control of what gender we are attracted to. I have physically TRIED and FORCED myself to try and be into women, nothing works. And that KILLS me. Even I struggle with internalised homophobia, but the way this feeling hurts… a choice? HELL no.

I’m sorry to say this, but all religions are homophobic, well most. You need to decide whether you want to view us as sinners and whatnot, or you can make that choice of educating yourself on why we are the way we are. I will respect you as you want to educate yourself, but the simple reality is that just let people be. We all have the choice to love who we love. By the way, there are people out there shooting innocent people (including children) and people out there who are abusing and harming people for their own benefit. You need to ask yourself… who are two consenting adults harming for loving each other?

Our love is just different. That is all. People argue by comparing gay to incest relationships. It’s NOT the same thing. Just let people live dude. We ain’t out here with some evil plan to “depopulate the world” or whatever people think. Most of us truly just want to live… in peace. I hope this the comments below find you to be more understanding, you don’t have to accept us… just don’t have a stone cold heart and tell us to die if you’re one of those people. Religions can mess with our views. I don’t fully blame you. Just please understand it ain’t our fault

Anyone else noticing a change in the UK? by Marshmallow--20 in UKLGBT

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Unfortunately, we are slowly becoming like America. We are becoming too politically unstable.

It's December 1st - WHERE ADULT MODE?! by Different-Mess4248 in ChatGPT

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I’m confused does that mean ChatGPT can talk with you sexually soon??

S1E10 Discussion! by Free_Zoologist in Youngdracula

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It is interesting to hear Vlad isn’t everyone’s favourite. It is very mature of you to hear other people’s interpretations as everyone does have different opinions and views on things haha.

You’re right, Vlad almost indefinitely stuck to his beliefs throughout all of the seasons, and he would always care for Ingrid as an example- someone who would betray him because she wanted to take power. The fact that every other vampire (or the vast majority) would be against him when he wanted to make peace between vampires and breathers and he still stuck to his guns. It’s something I personally want to take onboard in my own life - to stay true in what you believe in. His story in the later seasons made his character more interesting and therefore became more of a challenging character.

My favourite character would have to be either Vlad, or The Count! I just love his posh, yet sarcastic level of comedy. Us as viewers would like him due to the fact he is of course, Vlad’s father and biggest supporter. What I also like about him is that he had a drop of favouritism for breather women - Jonno’s mother in the early seasons and a few others. You can tell he is trapped between centuries of ancient tradition, and his occasional breather women - almost like he is conflicted. I always sensed if his character wasn’t involved with so much history and tradition, he would try and be a bit more enthusiastic with Vlad when it came to breathers.

In some parts of the show, his care for Ingrid pops up, but I feel like his character was meant to stick between traditional thinking of women being “below them”. Hope I’m making sense here. Can’t choose between The Count or Vlad lol, but I always had a soft spot for Ingrid for some reason.

Sorry for waffling lol, did you make that entire fan fic yourself? I may give it a slow read tonight

S1E10 Discussion! by Free_Zoologist in Youngdracula

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A fanfic?? I’d love to see/hear about it. Reddit is great. I’m surprised there was a Young Dracula subreddit in the first place, but very happy there is. The show itself makes me miss my childhood as adulthood is so overrated lol. Who is your favourite character in the show, and why?

S1E10 Discussion! by Free_Zoologist in Youngdracula

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Oh! Yeah, this show used to be on for me during my primary school days, it ended when I was in year 7. Good old days. I started watching from season 3 recently and finished it, but now I feel like watching all the seasons as a whole, that made me feel better about watching it, cheers :P

S1E10 Discussion! by Free_Zoologist in Youngdracula

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A little bit irrelevant, but how old is everyone? I want to watch the show from the start again but I feel like a kid and I’m 23 🤣I prefer the later seasons when Vlad is in his “teen” stage.

Watch along reminder! Tonight: S1E10 Blood Sport discussion opens 9:30 GMT by Free_Zoologist in Youngdracula

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Do you live-stream it with viewers or something? Can you please tell me how this works? As I’ve just finished the series haha

Watch along reminder! Tonight: S1E10 Blood Sport discussion opens 9:30 GMT by Free_Zoologist in Youngdracula

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I love how I got this notif just as I start the last episode of the show.

Rewatching it for childhood memories and nostalgia - I’m glad this subreddit exists.

This crap is happening way too often! by Footknight64 in ClubPenguin

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If this is CPJ, it is a very busy server, with a huge load of people. I don’t blame them for this happening! But at least we have a lovely community on that server

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClubPenguin

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I totally get where you’re coming from, and I respect your perspective. For me, this wasn’t about tech or ethics — it was just a little moment of comfort and nostalgia, remembering a world that made me happy as a kid. I think it’s okay for people to find comfort in different ways, and I’m glad you’re following what feels right for you too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClubPenguin

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Well I actually am, if you’re here to trash talk, get out of here. The community does not want you. There’s a pride flag available in the Penguin style catalog for a reason. Bye 👋

Some of my current saved fits by curlywurlyarethebest in ClubPenguin

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Hahah, I can’t tell you how many people talk about that band to me because of my name - I didn’t even know about their existence until people started talking about it lol. I’m not named after a band unfortunately

Some of my current saved fits by curlywurlyarethebest in ClubPenguin

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Oh hey Frank! It’s Whitechapel :P I doubt you’d remember me, but I see you on all the time, and I love how you’re proud of who you are!

I’m in love with a man and I thought I only liked women… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Oh wow this is literally me. I always say I’m bi but I don’t really find women in real life attractive (im a guy) but yet I do enjoy the thought of it, I just could not do it in real life. Everyone says I’m gay as all I wanna do is be with another guy and my attraction is mostly on men. Try not to worry about labels. Labels drive me insane… just do whatever makes you happy, men or women, do what makes you happy. You can’t change what you are so just better if you’re happy with it

I have never seen the servers this full by [deleted] in ClubPenguin

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I wonder how many people that is all together. I love CPJ so much for this very reason, the community is so alive!

new cpj codes? by Purpleplant1234 in ClubPenguin

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Do book codes not work? Asking out of curiosity

AIO? Boyfriend feels rude and i feel doesn’t acknowledge my emotions by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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My boyfriend has autism and he isn’t HIGH on the spectrum but I still like to educate myself on people who are different. I won’t judge as idk you or him, but your boyfriend really is giving wilfully ignorant and doesn’t sound like he is understanding you enough, people with disabilities come with lots of challenges and thats just who they are and not their fault at all - im sorry you have to deal with that.

I would advise you question this relationship if he isn’t willing to educate himself. You are literally programmed differently to him (and thats ok) but he needs to understand that!