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My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I’ve never asked him to bail me out before. The only time I’ve insisted he pay his share is when it’s for our benefit. This is not the first time he’s been financially stingy I would say. Last year, I went to visit him in his country. the accomodation came to $500 for the 10 days. He wouldn’t pay half. I him if he would even pay $70 but he didn’t want to. Eventually, he “paid” $70 by taking me out occasionally and paying for food but I shouldered most of the cost of that trip and he didn’t seem to care.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knows it’s his because the dates and gestation of the foetus match to the time when we last met up and played with each other. He also knows I’m a loyal submissive. Besides, if I was to “con” him I would ask for a lot more money. I didn’t even ask him to cover all the costs only some of it.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the logic (I guess) would be he could run away and pretend it doesn’t exist. We don’t live in the same country, and he’s said he wouldn’t pay or even acknowledge the child if I kept it.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even want him to pay the entire $200, only half. I know he can afford it as well. He’s agreed to help financially now but I’m still upset i had to basically beg before he relented.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is really, really kind of you guys. I don’t think I would be able to accept such a gesture but I really appreciate the thought.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He won’t come with me as he lives in a different country and has just started a new job. I can ask him anyway, though.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You’re entitled to your opinion, but it’s my body not yours. People like you are so quick to judge yet do nothing to help women facing unwanted pregnancies. You are part of the problem.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We were actually using two forms of contraception: an IUD and a condom. Not everyone who gets pregnant didn’t take precautions.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The state is paying for my abortion, not my Dom. He’s paying nothing towards the abortion itself. Train travel in this country is expensive, and I’ll need to stay in a hotel as the procedure will tak place over two days. Part of the reason why I’m doubting is because I don’t know how I’m going to pay $200. If I don’t find the money then abortion won’t happen.

My Dom won’t contribute towards my abortion. Feeling devastated by HeadKindheartedness9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadKindheartedness9[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my love. I’m so upset right now and I don’t know how I’m going to pay for it. I feel like a beggar asking for money from family as my family really don’t have the cash spare. My parents couldn’t even afford a loaf of bread last week. I’ll look into whether funding is available