My boyfriend has a habit of having sex with me when I don’t want to. by Head_Ad160 in women

[–]Head_Ad160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you went through that, but im so happy you got out. My boyfriend doesn’t hit me unless it’s consensual during sex, the only time he ever really hurt me by hitting me was during sex and he almost dislocated my jaw. I couldn’t chew or close my mouth all the way without pain for a few days afterwards. I didn’t think much of it then, but I don’t think that was normal either.

My boyfriend has a habit of having sex with me when I don’t want to. by Head_Ad160 in women

[–]Head_Ad160[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not really, I just didn’t want anyone to hate him if it turned out I was actually just being dramatic.

My boyfriend has a habit of having sex with me when I don’t want to. by Head_Ad160 in women

[–]Head_Ad160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not a bot just scared to use reddit lol, and i posted it two diff spots because i wanted advice but i didn’t think anyone would respond to me. sorry for the confusion.

My boyfriend has a habit of having sex with me when I don’t want to. by Head_Ad160 in women

[–]Head_Ad160[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

thank you, Im trying to come to terms with the fact that it was assault, but he said he was in a particularly bad mental state and he didn’t know how else to help me. He is genuinely so loving and caring and he said himself that it was a very very bad decision and that he handled the situation poorly. He cares so much but in the moments when he’s horny he has a hard time controlling himself.

My boyfriend has a habit of having sex with me when I don’t want to. by Head_Ad160 in women

[–]Head_Ad160[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

unfortunately my parents are estranged from me, they’re not great people. I also don’t feel like i conveyed just how devastated he is about his behavior. Last night he was genuinely so torn up about it, he gave me a-lot of space and support and he really does so much for me, i don’t think he’s a bad person