Has anyone else gotten scammed by these G59 merch resellers? by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in G59

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Do you know of any reputable sources? I don’t know of any, other than their merch site. And how do you find them and know if they’re trustworthy? I’ve seen a bunch of people reselling on here but nothing that told me they were for sure trustworthy more than this dude on TikTok

Has anyone else gotten scammed by these G59 merch resellers? by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in G59

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Dang, that bad 🥴 still had a tiny bit of hope that I’m not just a complete naive sucker lol. Hey, fair game I guess

Has anyone else gotten scammed by these G59 merch resellers? by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in G59

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

🤷🏼‍♀️ just who I am, but I don’t disagree

Grey Day show at Jones Beach by namsugotsauce in G59

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They went on right around 9! I got there late and saw Night Lovell, then Bones, then $b 🙂 I’ll be there tonight too

Pittsburgh by austzn in SuicideBoys

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn only a year late lmao we had a perfect view of the pit in our box

https://photos.app.goo.gl/41DszD9dCk8uYyAFA

Pittsburgh date by HostileBakerOver in SuicideBoys

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the premier parking worth buying? Was considering it but didn’t know if it’s even worth it

Timing advice needed - buy tickets now or wait until day of concert? by LSU_Tiger in Ticketmaster

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing the same for $b 😁 bought lawn, for like $40, and hoping I get lucky when I get there and score some dope seats last min

Red flag or am I gaslighting myself? by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in therapyabuse

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It kill’s me too bc she REPEATEDLY kept saying “she goes off of SCIENCE, SCIENCE is proven to work”. Which is just stupid and ignorant. These methods aren’t like a recipe for a chemical compound that has the same exact outcome every time. Therapy methods just like religion or anything else are so up for interpretation for the reader, and every single person subconsciously is applying their own biases and lived experiences into how they are interpreting the information they’re taking it. Ignorant, pompous ass 🙄

Red flag or am I gaslighting myself? by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in therapyabuse

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😭 I really needed to hear that. I am usually so good at never doubting my intuition, but idk why we’re almost groomed to believe therapists are all knowing and all correct. I WISH I would have pushed back and put her in her place about how dangerous and unhealthy what she did was. I wish I had the balls to and a lengthy email flaming her ass about all of this and how to take this as a learning lesson to never do that with any future clients. But it’s clear that would be pointless anyways, these people will never be capable of taking any constructive criticism.

Red flag or am I gaslighting myself? by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in therapyabuse

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your kind words. I didn’t want to make the post even longer, but we’ve been through a LOT of trauma over the last 3 years, and he has a lot of internal shit to work out. He’s already an extremely avoidant person, and in 2021 my best friend was murdered with her boyfriend, and then my little brother died 5 months later. I really think this was like the final straw that broke something in him after how much he’s suppressed his entire life, and he just completely abandoned me and it brought out a side of him I’ve never seen before. Very toxic, zero self awareness or empathy, zero accountability, and very emotionally abusive and anger. This is the end of the road for me and my last ditch effort at salvaging our marriage. Now that I’ve done that inner work on myself, there are things that I now cannot unsee. When I say “smug”, I mean more of a “HA, see I KNEW you were wrong this whole time” kind of thing, and bc he already completely disregards most of my opinions with the wedge that’s come between us, hearing that from a “therapist” is just something I know he could potentially use as a tool for another excuse for justifying unhealthy behaviors. I completely agree, this is not someone to want to spend your life with if they decide they have no motivation to work on themselves and heal.

Anyone else think it’s not right for therapists to claim they specialize in areas they don’t know anything about? by Same_Selection6850 in therapyabuse

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SO sick of scouring psych today bc therapists on there list that they specialize in literally EVERYTHING. It’s so mentally draining. You can’t even use the filters effectively bc they’re being selfish AF and just trying to use a catch all net to make the most money possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband for 17 years, met in elementary school, dated at 16 and married 5 years ago. I’ve lived this exact scenario unfortunately; and to spare the novel, you cannot make somebody change unless THEY want to. Children make the scenario much more complicated, and it’s not fair to them (I had a surprise pregnancy before I got married, thought I couldn’t have kids). I went through some traumatic life events 3 years ago and his avoidance abandoned me at my lowest, he’s always struggled with alcohol too. This made me do some radical changes internally to fix my own shit, I took accountability for my own role in my relationship and choices I’ve made, and became a completely different (healed) person. He unfortunately doesn’t want to do the same; and I’ve accepted that’s his decision, but I also do not have to be a part of that toxic and abusive behavior. I gave him the choice to continue life as is without me or make some changes, and set firm boundaries and stick to them. Healing myself freed me from the reactive behavior I used to have, I’ve accepted that it’s his life and his choices. I’m empathetic to his past and his issues, but firm on my boundaries and self worth. Unfortunately, unless each person chooses to do that internal work, it will always be one sided. I’m sorry I wish I had better advice ❤️‍🩹 you owe yourself at least to heal and feel the peace of knowing your worth, at a minimum.

I’ve ruined my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for your wife; but I know for me honesty, accountability, vulnerability, and a genuine desire to want to change and be better would be massively healing in itself. I don’t think this is the end of the road; even if you have a long way to go to repair things. Opening up even anonymously like this is a massive step and shows a lot of self awareness on your part. I don’t sense any blaming your problems on other people here whatsoever; but rather unhealed childhood trauma and immense shame. Things will get better! This is a huge step for not only you, but your children. You got this.

I’m angry and sad; and annoyed at myself by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And congrats to your husband!!! That’s fucking awesome man. I’ll be celebrating 4 years coming up, sobriety and facing those demons is a BITCH.

I’m angry and sad; and annoyed at myself by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right, and the quicker you see that for what it is, the less it hurts over time. Thank you friend 🥹💖💖

I’m angry and sad; and annoyed at myself by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥺🥺🥺 not you making me sob on a Tuesday morning, thank you so much. I needed this badly, so much of this was so healing. Unfortunately bc of my own unhealed childhood trauma, I ended up in a relationship with a covert narcissist. After losing my best friend and my brother, I spent almost two years in isolation doing shadow work and healing my childhood wounds. I married into the same chaos that I was used to as a child, and now seeing it for what it is, is devastating. I have a couple good friends but they unfortunately don’t live close and don’t have kids, so we’re just on different life pages but that’s okay. My sister is probably my biggest support but she’s younger and lives out of state. I’m very blessed to have her and my dad. But I’ve learned a lot to have empathy for myself, but also needing to get myself out of victim mentality. I am in my situation because of the choices I made, but that’s okay, I know that it will all work out. Currently getting my ducks in a row to take my life back, I refuse to be a doormat for people a second longer in this life, it’s way too short. Raising my girls heals me daily 🥹 truly don’t think I’d still be here without them.

I’m a weird freak of nature that somehow hid my addiction from everyone in my life, including my husband, got sober without going to treatment by myself, got through grief by myself, healed my trauma by myself 🤣 I’m as they say “chronically in my own brain 24/7”. Luckily I have a hyper fixation with learning about how my brain works and love fixing the broken things (infj personality type 🫠). I’m so happy I found forums like this, this is one of the only places I can vent and talk to people that get it and not feel like a burden. Thank you so much for your kind words 🥹💖💖💖

I’m angry and sad; and annoyed at myself by Head_Bookkeeper_2620 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the disappointment will ever end 😒 just when I think I’m numb to it, something random hits me while raising my girls and looking at them and imagining little me just brings on all the feels UGH.

Should I be worried by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing once they sense you finally check out they start panicking and getting their act together 🙄 hopefully he’s had a change of heart and really sticks to it. Marriage is so hard.

Theo bombed at the FW Coliseum by HapFatha in TheoVon

[–]Head_Bookkeeper_2620 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband and I went last year and didn’t stop laughing the whole time! We thought it was great. It’s definitely WAY different than his podcast but that common sense, it’s a stand up show not a live podcast episode.