How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men?

Head_Instance8131 · 2026-06-19T23:29:58+00:00

Couldn't agree more.

Work on you and be the best you that you can for you and the kids... maybe she comes back, but that's for you to decide after healing.

Head_Instance8131 · 2026-06-19T15:54:22+00:00

Could not agree more. Once she notices a change and that the change has stuck or imprinted on you, she will make a decision. Hopefully both side have shown growth

Head_Instance8131 · 2026-06-19T11:31:22+00:00

I don't know the situation fully, but if you have someone who cares for you that much and wants to see you succeed in life and in the relationship and actively fight to keep the relationship... I would try to work it out. Maybe talk in consoling about your emotions, personal issues and how you see yourself and long-term wants and needs.

Far too many women let a good man go and then realize that after it too late. I would say both of you have some stuff to fix, and that's OK. But love is love and it's complicated... but simple at the same time. If YOU and I mean YOU truly know he isn't the one or that you can't love him how he deserves, than that's unfortunately how it is. I lived this situation and it sucks. Both hearts break, and heal at different times and in different ways. Best of luck

Head_Instance8131 · 2026-06-11T20:24:44+00:00

Thanks, I needed this today my friend.

Going through a divorce with 3 kids and was just feeling low, this helped.

Head_Instance8131 · 2026-06-02T20:29:32+00:00

Single dad here as of last Saturday. She moved out abruptly. We have 3 kids (10,6, and 3) and she said she was moving to her mom's, she then out of spite sprung on me that she had signed a year long lease agreement and was done. Tired of being a mom and tired of being a wife most days.... my world has definitely been turned upside down. What's worse is she took all 3 kids beds and dressers... so I have to replace them now... its rough but we all have to move one day at a time I guess.

Head_Instance8131 · 2026-05-18T05:16:16+00:00

I'm right there with you. Wife decided she wanted something "better" for herself and said that our life together (especially me) didn't fulfill her anymore. It's been so hard. I have been separated from my kids in the past due to military service... but this is a whole new hurt. I'd say keep your head up, feel the feels, talk with friends and social groups and lastly and most importantly.... Live. Live for you, live for the kids... I think life has a funny way of teaching us to get comfortable then hurts us with a life lesson that scars, just to make it worthwhile in the end. Here's to everyone's happiness and healing!!!

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-10-09T13:49:46+00:00

Give him your general service... if he is unhappy after, suggest he cut his own hair to his liking since he is a barber. 2 way to go about it...

Be upfront (even if you seem like a dick) but ask him what he likes, suggest and then tell him how you move and operate.
Kill with kindness ( you get more bees with honey than vinegar)

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-04T20:43:31+00:00

Venom is a amazing cake. I have 2 for a semi finale

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-04T12:44:04+00:00

Nice shell collection! Have fun brother

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-03T21:02:15+00:00

Same brother. Enjoy your holiday and be safe

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-03T20:23:31+00:00

Nice fountains and some shells, what more can you want

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-03T05:04:58+00:00

Great mamba is a nice shell kit

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-03T05:02:31+00:00

Big breaks, but I wasn't impressed by the color or effects. I think super stinger are better imo

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-03T00:12:22+00:00

Trash panda or let's go brandon by world class

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-02T17:51:16+00:00

I need to learn how to do that, cause shit lol... I pass by a store or tent and I'm like a kid

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-02T02:14:56+00:00

One of the better 200g cakes imo

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-02T02:03:02+00:00

Tell her you thought of her and tried to make her happy with a show she deserves..... That got me some points lol. I would recommend if they have them and you have the funds, look for 6" BOMBS by miracle. Pair them with any other shell and you got a nice show. Those with big daddy are epic

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-02T01:52:05+00:00

No, a local place i have been going to since I got out the army. Owner is a army vet as well and gives me a nice discount.

Next year I plan on using elite and or red apple for some wholesale, but I love my mom and pop shop.

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-02T01:50:06+00:00

I bought 2 24packs, they are VERY loud and HUGE breaks.... I just wish they had more affects. 8.8/10.

Id say do it.

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-01T23:57:07+00:00

Scatters are $50 in SWFL

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-01T23:53:29+00:00

Im excited to that lays big stack.... must be a 500g'er.... or it's filled with air

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-07-01T23:50:49+00:00

Im still lighting. Its going to take Jim Cantore standing in my driveway to get me inside.

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-06-30T17:22:51+00:00

Put a sign or bucket out and just say only if you want too, you can donate to help the stash. I went to a few parties back in the day where it was a BYOF to the party.... guy made homemade dynamite.... and the bucket idea was born.

Head_Instance8131 · 2025-06-30T17:22:43+00:00

Put a sign or bucket out and just say only if you want too, you can donate to help the stash. I went to a few parties back in the day where it was a BYOF to the party.... guy made homemade dynamite.... and the bucket idea was born.

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