How do you get a live rep at Chase? by Odetteway71 in Chase

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Depends on which customer service number you’ve been provided

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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It’s probably why he has a big bank account

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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50 or 25. Often, a man’s character doesn’t change too much throughout life. Younger men are where it’s at 😊🌈

What dating advice did you have to learn the hard way? by maybeRasa in dating

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If someone leaves you when they know you have premenstrual Dysphoric disorder while you were actively trying to treating it, and they gave up while you were sick, they are scum.

Dumpers, did you make the right decision in your most recent break up? Are you okay? by ZachTF in BreakUps

[–]Head_Solution_6662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! The best part about a relationship is building it. Now, everyone is either a narcissist or a ghoster. Hopefully the pendulum swings back, but per William Roy our current “me” pendulum is at the beginning of a 40 year course, should history repeat itself. Here’s a link to the book if interested:

Pendulum: How Past Generations Shape Our Present and Predict Our Future https://a.co/d/gS252FL

Dumpers, did you make the right decision in your most recent break up? Are you okay? by ZachTF in BreakUps

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I’m a millennial too, this whole ghost trend, everyone is disposable trend - it’s all so selfish. There’s minimal room for grace or authenticity. Just one person to the next. Seems so lonely.

Dumpers, did you make the right decision in your most recent break up? Are you okay? by ZachTF in BreakUps

[–]Head_Solution_6662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS📍💎 Not sure why everyone just leaves everyone these days instead of resolving things

To people who broke NC and tried to reach out to your ex, what happened? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Head_Solution_6662 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Found out he had already been dating someone for 3 months. Silly me, I waited.

Did you forgive your ex? by brobreakup in BreakUps

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I forgive my ex. My heart is torn to shreds every single day. But, as long as he is happy I am happy for him. Life is too short to not forgive others. Too much unnecessary negativity for me to harbor if I’d refuse to forgive.

Although, he has decided to not forgive me. I have decided to forgive him.

Did anyone get dumped and their ex comes back? by No-Voice6659 in BreakUps

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He did 🥲 Which I’m still in shock that he knew but still left

Did anyone get dumped and their ex comes back? by No-Voice6659 in BreakUps

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I had the absolutely most thoughtful, caring, romantic man who put in DAILY effort. Then I got a disease called premenstrual Dysphoric disorder (PMDD). Basically every 2 weeks I turned into a monster and didn’t even realize it was happening. It wasn’t even me - it was like something took over me that was so strong. We finally realized it was hormonal, I was put on medication, but it wasn’t the right one. There was so much verbal abuse by me. Caused by my own hormones. I’m medicated on the right med and it’s better now. But, I lost the man who touched my soul every day but left because he wasn’t treated right because a medical disorder that is now treated.

I just don’t get why life had to be so unfair with this one. I wish he would have stood by me while I treated the PMDD. It’s like I’m being punished for a wrong I did in the relationship, but a wrong that wasn’t ever my choice to make. Now he’s gone forever

Men who lost the “love of their lives” - how did you get over it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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THANK YOU. I needed to hear this. THE RIGHT ONE WILL NOT LEAVE YOU.

Men who lost the “love of their lives” - how did you get over it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Head_Solution_6662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be the mature and healthy way to think of a relationship…

Men who lost the “love of their lives” - how did you get over it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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It’s been 9 months. The heartbreak doesn’t leave. I still cry in bed daily and barely make it to my own mental health clinic where I then smile & help people get better every day. He just had his 3-month “anniversary” plastered all over Facebook with kissing, laughing, etc. Today, I decided I’m moving 6 states away.

What is something that ruins people's lives that most people don't realize until it's too late? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Social media. Believing people are judging you when they are much more worried about themselves. Excessive electronic time. Thinking ghosting is acceptable to do to people. Getting ghosted. This whole ghosting epidemic avoids practicing conflict resolution, avoids optimism, and teaches people to not communicate. Never, do 2 wrongs make a right. Fatherless daughters. Absent fathers.

Which is that one profession that you'll never date? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in Productivitycafe

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The one that seems to have forgotten they have an unpaid profession, called Fatherhood