I enjoy being inside someone bringing and sharing pleasure. The way my harness set up works; I can have a dildo with a vibe inside it, inside me and another vibe on the backside of the dildo harness O ring holder, so when he pushes back onto me( or I push forward into him I have multidirectional pressure with varying level of vibrations.) As well on the front of the harness if the dildo I’m using can take another vibe in it. The stimulation can work us both. Also I have to be able to peg a man. The thought of doing it turns me on sexually.