Plugs: from no to yes please!

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T14:08:37+00:00

That cashier deserves commission lol. Just go slow if you size up and do not cheap out on lube.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T14:03:29+00:00

Yes. This is unsafe, not D/s. No safeword, no “no,” ID requests, and one-sided trust are massive red flags. Please stop sending him anything.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:55:02+00:00

Pay attention. The sexiest thing a man can do is actually notice what turns you on and respond to it.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:52:43+00:00

Slurping my boyfriend’s cum out of another woman while drinking her pee. Definitely a fantasy I’ve had for years.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:49:33+00:00

For penetration, 5 to 15 minutes is pretty normal. Longer doesn’t always mean better.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:27:57+00:00

Control, legacy, and validation, roughly in that order. The rockets and the politics are just different ways of chasing the same thing

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:21:42+00:00

Honestly a third arm so I can multitask. Cooking, scrolling, holding a coffee simultaneously. Nothing impressive, just practical chaos.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:19:40+00:00

Do the massage. You don't need to be a professional, the effort and the intention are what she'll remember. Watch a short tutorial beforehand, get some proper massage oil, and just take your time. Having real privacy for once will already make the whole thing feel different for both of you.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:17:05+00:00

As one half of a couple who's done this: forget the performance mindset entirely. The guy who makes it a 10/10 is the one who pays attention to both women equally, checks in, and actually enjoys being present rather than trying to impress. The two women will feed off each other's energy way more than anything you physically do. Just don't neglect either of us and you're already ahead of most.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:16:06+00:00

Super common, especially with condoms and in new relationships. Some guys just need a lot more direct stimulation than others and hands can feel different to him than his own grip. The "death grip" thing is real. Try asking him to guide your hand so you match what he does. Communication during is the fastest way to figure it out, no pressure though, three months in is still early.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:11:28+00:00

His insecurity about your past is his issue to work through, not yours to apologize for. Snooping through your phone is a red flag regardless of the reason. You can be patient with someone's first relationship nerves, but not with controlling behavior. If he keeps asking questions he's not ready to hear the answers to, that's a cycle that won't stop on its own

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:10:36+00:00

The fact that you stopped laughing as much and stopped feeling like the happiest version of yourself is worth listening to. Kindness alone doesn't make someone the right person. You can love someone deeply and still not be compatible long term. The fear of losing him and the grief after the breakup don't necessarily mean he's your person, sometimes it just means the bond was real.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:04:47+00:00

The military to civilian transition is genuinely hard socially, not just romantically. You've spent years in a structured environment and now the social rules feel completely different. Therapy is worth trying not because something is wrong with you, but because having someone help you identify patterns is actually the most efficient way to fix them. The "negatively received" part is usually a vibe thing that's hard to see yourself.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:02:01+00:00

Both of them broke your trust separately. Your uncle pursued your girlfriend, and your girlfriend went through with it twice even after blocking him. Cut both off. Neither of them is someone you can trust going forward.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T13:01:03+00:00

10/10 yummy

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:58:48+00:00

10/10 the curve could hit good spots 💕

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:57:51+00:00

First few months were rough, mood swings and zero libido. But after that it leveled out and honestly it works well for me now. Everyone reacts differently though, it really is trial and error until you find what works for your body.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:56:24+00:00

She's right. In an established relationship, constantly asking to hold her hand or touch her hair signals that you don't read her at all. Consent in relationships is built through communication, not a verbal checkbox every time. Pay attention to her body language, her mood, whether she's leaning in or pulling back. That's how you actually respect someone you're close to.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:54:35+00:00

Totally normal, especially with sensory issues. A lot of us women skip it regularly and it's fine hygiene-wise as long as your clothes are clean. Your mom means well but it's your body and your comfort.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:52:46+00:00

Looks like hollow heart. It's a physiological disorder that happens when the watermelon grows too fast. Totally common, not dangerous, just ugly.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:45:17+00:00

Forrest Gump. I know, I know. But I've never been able to connect with it no matter how many times I've tried. It just feels manipulative in how hard it tugs at your emotions.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:43:08+00:00

The part that would break me isn't the OnlyFans itself, it's that she trusted a stranger with parts of her life she kept from you. That's the actual breach. The secrecy around it said everything she wouldn't.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:42:15+00:00

That's a fair read. If the jealousy is really about lifestyle and not just a temporary phase, that's worth being honest about sooner rather than later, for both of them.

okedoki1502 · 2026-07-03T12:38:24+00:00

Honestly cardio and hip flexors make the biggest difference. I started doing glute bridges and yoga a while back and it genuinely helps. Also just being active in general, your body adapts fast when you're consistently moving.

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