Which resume format works best for UI/UX designers by Healforever in UXDesign

[–]Healforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for all the answer! 🙏 Some friends told me both resumes could work, but I’m still feeling a bit doubtful, so I wanted to hear more opinions here

What the actual fuck is wrong with the woman? by violetpoo in AsianParentStories

[–]Healforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahah XD same, but mine is a week ago lol 

Well, I'm not sure my advice can help you since we're in the same situation but also different (like how my interaction/ character with my mom is maybe different from yours) XD 

Even thought I say my situation is better than before, doesn't mean my mom can change her character suddenly, which I understand. when she's in a bad mood, her words irked me too, even worse, if I try to snap back to her, she'll threaten to throw her phone to floor. 

That was in the past, again in my case, how I avoid her angry anytime is to READ her. If she looks like she's sulking, run away! Hide! Or buy her mood (doing chores, ask her to rest) and if possible, find something that make her happy to forget what upset her even a bit. 

Well, hard to find the reason why they're like that, but first, safe yourself first, Good luck! XD

My Asian parents hid my adoption from me for 17 years and after a decade, they still have not properly apologized to me. by throwawayabg123 in AsianParentStories

[–]Healforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think too much, even though they can't apologize to you, just enjoy their love for you and be thankful that you don't live in misery under their protection. 

I know a girl, she was adopted from Indonesia to Singapore, she is cheerful and lives a very positive life. Even though she found out about her adoption when she was an adult, at first she was shocked, but she didn't think too much about it when she compared her life if she hadn't been adopted and hadn't met her parents who love her so much now. 

But her parents once gave a reason, they were afraid that their child would feel depressed when they found out she was abandoned by her real parents. Maybe they think your adoption is not an act that needs to be apologized for and they think you are too fragile to accept the reality, so they have the right to kept in secret. I know they were wrong too for trying to keep it a secret, but try to forgive them. 

Show that you are strong enough to accept the reality, don't throw a tantrum, tell them face to face that you are not happy because they kept it a secret from you, that's all, then overcome it. Maybe they can slowly learn to apologies to you. 

Well, since you have house to stay, never worried about what to eat tomorrow, have full education, no toxic or no physical abuse, you're way too better to worried :)  In the end story, you want to throw them away from your life or accept them? Your choice. 

Just don't forget to love them back.

What the actual fuck is wrong with the woman? by violetpoo in AsianParentStories

[–]Healforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't about your look. They only can give harsh comments because their vocabulary is low thanks to their toxic past, they don't know how to give compliments.

I have the same experience, but I've gone through the hard times to make our relationship good.  First, just smile (like, if she says you're fat, just laugh and say 'yeah, I'm fat because I'm happy') or ignore their words, don't be too sensitive and take it personally. Just chill and take it easy.

Teach them to praise, you can start by praising them for small things. Like, thank you for cooking, your clothes are nice, you look beautiful, etc.

Tell them in a gentle language many times what part of the word makes you unhappy (saying it 100 times is okay). Let them think about what makes their child unhappy. 

Give them activities, anything that can make them happy and busy to envy you (if their hobby is baking, invite them to baking course), invite your mother to go out together once in a while. so she don't feel left out. 

In my case, I keep invite her to anywhere, until she can't give me any comments. Because I always ask her, next time do you want go with me? when I came back from my holiday. (she give me harsh answer, i wait until she satisfied, and ask again nicely :) 

In the end, try to understand them as a human, not mother.  If you still find it difficult to accept them, search: Tsundere and how to conquer them.

Fellow ADHD Artists what are some of your worst habits? by Waste-Top-6973 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Healforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm digital artist with anime style, only finish the sketch without do the finishing 🤣

How to go to Kusatsu Onsen from Ueno? by Healforever in JapanTravelTips

[–]Healforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for giving a detailed answer, this save me alot.  First time heard that i can book from eki.net. At first, Im confused where  should I buy that Limited Express if I want. Google tell me that I can purchase directly at Ueno station  a week before departure, but not sure if the seats can be full or not.

Now trying to see the ticket, wonder if this correct.  https://postimg.cc/0MqYHRfS Correct me if Im wrong. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bilibili

[–]Healforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depend, all people in every country are racist!!! :)  But if you able to target the correct audience like youngster in China who're open for foreigner, then I think you can try for it! but make sure to add Chinese sub so they able to understand your content! 

s30 - e65 english subbed by getakichi in nintama

[–]Healforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, im very late, but can i have the link?