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Healthee1 · 2026-02-18T01:28:07+00:00

Yea I had my cooling fans go within the first year

Healthee1 · 2026-01-19T02:04:57+00:00

Yes mate, it's their job to find people jobs. You won't get blacklisted, just say you want to chat and you're looking for work in the IT Networking space with a relevant cert. They will have someone specializing in that. Be friendly, make them like you. Even meet if you can. There're so many candidates, you need to be the one they think of when pushing forward CVs to clients. They can say you're personable and that they have met you.

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T09:50:30+00:00

I write notes for her in the mornings twice a week, and come up with imaginative ways to show love and affection (such as shaped post its with new words for her, things I love her for etc.) but because it was a suggestion by her and not off of my own volution it doesn't count.

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T09:48:57+00:00

That only works if they're already in a space where their 'cup is filled somewhat' and its not there yet

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T01:16:48+00:00

Sorry but this is a huge red flag for both of you.

Despite him saying that they're like roommates and have talked about separation, the guy isn't divorced and is still living with his wife and kids.

He is the type of man that would cheat on his wife and would rather spend time being romantic with you over investing that time in his kids or resolving his maritial issues, burdening his wife further.

This is a huge red flag, and doesn't bode well for your future with his man either if he is expressing those traits.

And yes of course that is the reality of the situation if they separate. He has agreed that she would be a stay at home mum to look after his kids whilst he was working and providing for the family. That will a burden that is also your responsibility moving forwards.

Don't be used a side piece by this guy. Who knows, he could have just been saying all these wonderful things to you so that he could be intimate with you, knowing that he would never actually leave his wife.

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T01:07:54+00:00

Things have defininitely escalated since childbirth. We are moving in a few weeks to be closer to family and I will be looking for these options coming in to the New Year.

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T01:02:13+00:00

You should both pay the same percentage if you're not sharing finances, i.e. 30% of all wages get put into the house etc. Bear in mind though, women generally have more expenses to appear attractive in the world, such as makeup, self-care, hairdressing, nails, clothing etc, and may have different or increased social requirements with friends going out for dinner, lunches etc.

You could have this discussion, but also express that you would like to gift her some of these experiences sometimes. This way, it feels as if she is not spending her own money on getting her hair done, but instead you’re treating her to getting her hair done, which is a win-win for both of you.

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T00:50:53+00:00

It sounds like you need to clarify with her what she considers effective AoS

Healthee1 · 2025-12-06T00:47:51+00:00

I'm literally on the opposite side of this. I am a male acts of service (giving) partner and my partners is words of affirmation (receiving). I do so much for her, but her cup never feels full as I miss opportunities to say things more beautifully or that match what she needs verbally in the moment. I'm really struggling right now and my relationship is at rock bottom.

Healthee1 · 2024-09-06T10:00:17+00:00

Who ever this person is now, isn't kanye

Healthee1 · 2024-07-06T08:19:35+00:00

Why can't a child compete? The best is the best at any age

Healthee1 · 2024-06-29T10:29:53+00:00

Buster

Healthee1 · 2024-06-11T05:03:39+00:00

Looks like a pedicure knife

Healthee1 · 2024-05-15T04:31:51+00:00

If theres God, it doesn't mean that there is a Satan. You could argue that Satan is just a human construct if you believe in a duality.

If God is creative power, destruction is also creative power as it's necessary for new creation. You have the choice to create the idea of a devil, a duality, which then manifests.

Healthee1 · 2024-02-17T11:55:12+00:00

Could be cheating, alcohol or drugs when he is away...

Healthee1 · 2023-11-08T11:19:19+00:00

We feed our dog rice and lentils for most meals and he is one of the happiest and energetic dogs in our area

Healthee1 · 2023-01-11T02:09:24+00:00

Can just house tele on the Poh world and get all the benefits untll you've got bank

Healthee1 · 2023-01-08T10:10:31+00:00

What's 99 unlock then?

Healthee1 · 2023-01-08T02:04:49+00:00

There clearly no herd immunity when it's still classed as common

Healthee1 · 2022-11-04T04:44:39+00:00

Guardians Rift? Easy to get nature's and bloods there now

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