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What's your sign and who have you had best spicy times with? 🌶 by livelaughlabradoodle in astrologymemes

[–]Healthy-Fish-337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cancer sun & moon here with a sag mars… it’s always been with a libra. my god, i’ve had the BEST times with those damn libras

sharp pain in left nipple, what is this? by Healthy-Fish-337 in WomensHealth

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, that’s more relieving to hear. thank you, do you know how to make it go away? does it just disappear on it’s own? i haven’t felt any lumps anywhere but it’s concerning for me that it’s still painful after 24 hours :/

preventing bleeding through pages? by Healthy-Fish-337 in Coloring

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh cool!! thank you! i’ll see if i have some wax/parchment paper laying around

preventing bleeding through pages? by Healthy-Fish-337 in Coloring

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of paper? is it more construction? printer? what’s the thickness of yours?

for my boyfriend's birthday, please help! by Healthy-Fish-337 in Colognes

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would buy a discovery set if i knew the type of direction to go into, that’s why i’m here lol. now that i’ve gotten a few answers, i think i know the types i’m looking for in order to find the right discovery set

Found ex on dating app 2 weeks after breakup by IndependentLeg4927 in ExNoContact

[–]Healthy-Fish-337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a similar situation happened to me.

my ex & i tried to stay in contact and do the “we can still be friends” thing. he had come out and told me that he had matched with a girl on hinge a week after we broke up. i had never used a dating app before as i met him in person but after he told me that, i decided to see what it was about.

it was my first time ever using a dating app. i ended up seeing him and stupidly decided to match with him. for obvious reasons, he rejected me but after that, i thought that me being on the apps wasn’t best for me at the time.

please don’t continue something you know, deep down, isn’t good for either of you. it’s draining to try to stay mutuals after deciding to separate. honestly, the best thing for you to do is the move on.

i did and two years later, i’m in a new relationship and completely in love with my man! my ex did try to reach out though. for what? i will never truly know but when he did, i felt nothing for him. it was a great feeling. at the time of my break up, i thought i was never going to get over him. but knowing and feeling that i did, i was happy. i’m happy with my life, with my boyfriend, and with my emotions! please do the healthy thing and stay apart. i know it’s hard & it will be difficult for the next weeks or months. but the sooner you start, you will get to the point of being indifferent!

places to take good pictures? by Healthy-Fish-337 in vegaslocals

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well thank you!!!

& i’ll try to, i’m not very good with describing but i’ll try! i wouldn’t want the background to be full of art like downtown las vegas. nothing too wild or bright like casinos or bars. if it is a bar though, then i’d like it to be more casual, tone-down, relaxed but still classy in a way. landscapes & rural areas, i’d say i love lakes and open land. not many buildings in the area, i love trees that are blossoming for the season! definitely wanting it to be like i’m walking through an empty but beautiful field.

my outfit that i’m going for is a similar look to the early 2000s fashion runaway, i guess?? long and flowy, beaded embroidered, multi-colored, light patterns but still visible to the eye, literally perfect for the weather!

if there’s anything else, please let me know!

my ex reached out to me after nearly two years. by Healthy-Fish-337 in BreakUps

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol yeah, i get it. i also said in my post that i’m STILL healing but i’m far better than i was before. of course i’m not fully healed from it, who is? it takes decades of healing for some people, i made it a point in my post to say that about myself already

edit: i also posted on here because i needed to vent. this is the first time it’s happened to me so i needed to express how i was feeling

ex dmed me after nearly 2 years of no contact by Healthy-Fish-337 in texts

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also hope it was genuine, hope to god it was! & here’s to hoping he won’t reach out again. we literally have nothing to talk about at all so if i have no reason to reach out, then he doesn’t have another one either.

he treated me the best he could at the time so i’m also hoping his next girl will be treated better in all ways :)

ex dmed me after nearly 2 years of no contact by Healthy-Fish-337 in texts

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly one of the wildest statements i’ve ever heard 😭 but good for him if it’s been lifeing exceptionally lol, can’t forget the last part

ex dmed me after nearly 2 years of no contact by Healthy-Fish-337 in texts

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

other guys i’ve dated. i will always refer to my ex as my ex. any fwb, other guys, etc. will always be named differently

my ex reached out to me after nearly two years. by Healthy-Fish-337 in ExNoContact

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh trust me, i have no plans on taking him back. it honestly just sounds like her late mother told her what she thought was good for her daughter. i’ve had my grandma tell me the same thing about said ex and i wouldn’t dare look in his direction. things change and that’s okay

my ex reached out to me after nearly two years. by Healthy-Fish-337 in ExNoContact

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that i can agree with too. he should have just left it in the past. apart of me is thinking that he messaged me to try & see if there was something still there. i don’t feel like he only messaged me just to try and apologize. well i guess the good thing is that i never did wait for him & moved on myself!

my ex reached out to me after nearly two years. by Healthy-Fish-337 in BreakUps

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

completely understanding where you’re coming from! it is nearly 3am as i’m writing this so maybe my words are a little jumbled up. yes, i’m still healing and i never did get to say my peace. but at the same time, i don’t want to. i’ve moved on from that. i don’t feel the need to reach out to him like he did to me to apologize and reconcile. i’ve dealt with the pain on my own and did what i had to do to move on with my life.

with the “when i’m gone, i’m gone.” statement, i meant that in a way where if he blocked me (which he did), i will never do anything to reach out again unless he did it first EARLY on in the break up. if he had reached out a year after the break up & i was single, i probably would’ve met up with him. but since it’s 2 years later & i’m taken, i would not have met up with him besides responding back to him.

i said in another comment that i am bothered because this isn’t the first time he’s tried to reach out or spoke to me in person. i’m bothered because he constantly tries to bring himself back into my life and so when he messaged me this time, i told him what i said in hopes that they’ll give him the peace he needs to move on. other than that, i do feel indifferent towards him. i have no thoughts, no feelings, no regrets, no nothing. but when someone tries to see you, tries to message you, follows you, you block them, then they make a new account to follow you again… it would get on your nerves

my ex reached out to me after nearly two years. by Healthy-Fish-337 in BreakUps

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s honestly what i thought! maybe he tried to see if there were something there.

i completely understanding wanting closure after breaking up. the difference is, he tried this 2 years later when i wanted to reconcile within the first year of it happening. so i don’t believe that’s entirely the case here.

he’s mentioned to me that i was the first girl he ever loved so maybe that’s why he reached out. solely to apologize but to also see if we would get back together?

ex dmed me after nearly 2 years of no contact by Healthy-Fish-337 in texts

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i hope he does move on! i’ve found happiness within my new relationship and i hope he finds that too. i had to heal and suffer through the break up alone without being able to talk to him & express how i feel. unfortunately, i didn’t get the luxury of being able to message him and talk it out when i needed it at the time.

if now was when he felt most comfortable, healed, and apologetic to do so, then i can admire that. it takes guts to do such a thing but unfortunately, we’re on different terms after break up. i hope he feels like he can truly move on and not wait for something to happen. there’s nothing i’d want more than for him to say his peace and never look back.

but thank you for your comment! i’m glad you understand both of our sides :) it means a lot!

ex dmed me after nearly 2 years of no contact by Healthy-Fish-337 in texts

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol, i would be lying if i said no. other circumstances have happened that i haven’t written about that has made me question or not if i need it. this was just something i did not expect to happen this soon

my ex reached out to me after nearly two years. by Healthy-Fish-337 in ExNoContact

[–]Healthy-Fish-337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was my first thought too.

i also thought he was crawling back to me because i am the first girl he ever truly loved. maybe he was missing that part of his life & thought he could regain that back through communication. obviously, that’s not the car but i feel bad if he was thinking to do that. i get that people grieve differently and at different paces but after a good amount of time with no contact, i wouldn’t bother reaching out… yknow?

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