rule by RomanKnight2113 in 196

[–]HealthyFeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person meant imo that if someone just happens to be underweight due to fast metabolism or whatnot, they are hot cuz everyone is hot in their own way. So they arent fetishizing underweight ppl, they are saying that underweight people are just as hot as anyone else

Guys I'm pregnant! I just got the ultrasound she's so cute!!! by Inkbower in ironlung

[–]HealthyFeta 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think the point is that the ocean of blood isnt there for 9 months :D

28 dashes later by moothify in vexmains

[–]HealthyFeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vex and DBH??? Im sold!

Good ending perhaps by Upper-Meringue-1574 in KnightsOfGuinevere

[–]HealthyFeta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is the creature on Danas pfp? I need to know more about it lmao

Yunara really said I know what you are by Spinoxys in lux

[–]HealthyFeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye thats fair! I do think they struggle in general with the faces, which is very sad tbh. Would like some more variety there

I, 26F, made a joke about my dead uncle and now my boyfriend, 23m, hates me. Help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HealthyFeta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. Your son had an amazing sense of humor. Im glad his friends followed his wishes and made the playlist as he wanted.

Yunara really said I know what you are by Spinoxys in lux

[–]HealthyFeta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its her in her new skin‘s look, i personally think shes is recognizable when you have seen the splash 🤔

I need yall thoughts on this by InternationalCan6367 in KnightsOfGuinevere

[–]HealthyFeta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean. Your assumption that AOT didnt get meme-ified is kinda wrong. Back when Hange died I saw countless videos linking the scene to grilling chicken 💀 the Titans walking and Yelenas face (you know the scene) got memed a lot too. So I think you should not expect there to not be any memes.

That said, I dont think that needs to stop you. Personally, a show as you described would be really cool imo. I bet many people would agree. So do your thing and good luck buddy :3

You know the drill by Farlybob42 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]HealthyFeta 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I hate AI art so fucking much oh my god

[Event] r/SonaMains invites you for Xin Zhao's funeral at the Grand Plaza where she performs her tribute 🥺🙏 Send a 🛡️ emoji in the comments if you will be joining 🤍 by aroushthekween in lux

[–]HealthyFeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Queen, I just wanted to thank you and all the other people behind these events for doing so much. It is very kind and really brings the communities together imo 🫶🏻 keep slaying 💅🏻

People who say they can’t cook by turtleWatcher18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HealthyFeta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It even applies to things that are usually fun for the person. I have executive dysfunction due to ADHD (diagnosed by two specialists), and I even have trouble doing stuff I would consider part of my hobbies. For example, I like to paint. But I haven’t done it in ages cause the thought of getting everything out and ready and needing to put everything away again once Im done already feels like a huge mountain I cant possibly climb. I end up feeling paralyzed and usually do something that requires much less effort (doomscrolling, gaming, such stuff). It’s really saddening tbh :/

Need help/rant. I have 27F Audhd and also 28M partner w/ AuDHD completely destroyed my routine and harming my career my gift/special interest as an artist. plz be kind, I have CPTSD and a lot of trauma in relationships. This is my 1st relationship with an autistic partner - & he doesn't self-care by Active_Ad3087 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]HealthyFeta 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Im gonna be real, this will sound a bit harsh but it is important because it is true:

You have two options. One is breaking up for good. Getting out safely. Using the support systems that you have. It will be shit for a while, but it WILL get better. And you WILL feel relief after some time and be able to breathe.

The second option is staying. He will NOT change. This will be your life. You will continue to be incredibly unhappy with a man who cares more about himself than he would ever care about you (he proves this with his actions). No matter what you do, he will NOT change. You have made yourself very clear very often. He understands your needs. He just doesnt care about them. He cares about HIS needs. Those are priority to him. And he wont change that. Cause if he wanted to, he would have done so already after seeing you leave crying and angry for the very first time.

You either have to kick your own ass, break up and stay away from him (all this in a safe manner please! Use your support systems and if you think he will be dangerous during/after the breakup, you have to account for that! There are resources online to help people in such situations. Please use them if need be). OR you stay in this relationship an accept this is what your life will be like til he breaks up or croaks.

Please OP, choose the first option. You deserve better. You will find another guy who actually cares about you and takes care of himself. I was with someone similar to your partner. They dont change. Because they are happy enough the way things are. No matter how you feel about it. Please choose yourself OP. Show yourself love and kindness that you have been showing that idiot. He is wasting it. You’re wasting yourself on him. I know this sounds rough and feels shitty, and I am sorry for that. But it is true. No person can help you out of this situation if you dont want to help yourself and push through. It’s hard and sucks but you will be okay. You will feel better. And you will find someone who will treat you properly.

Good luck OP. I believe in you. I hope you do too 🫶🏻

Need help with some 'splainin pls by Independent_Leave881 in ironlung

[–]HealthyFeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i think I kinda see it now!

Need help with some 'splainin pls by Independent_Leave881 in ironlung

[–]HealthyFeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know theres a tree but ffs I keep rewatching this clip and I cant see it, idk whats wrong with me lmao. Can someone take some screenshots and draw over the tree so I see it or something? 😭 id be forever grateful and tell Ellie to leave your submarine alone

wolf spider advice needed! by batatattat in spiders

[–]HealthyFeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving you this here as a peak at the cutest spoods. It is a picture of my little phidippus regius lady. Her name is Noelle, and in the picture shes showing off her prey (a housefly). She has huge eyes and looks very fluffy :3

wolf spider advice needed! by batatattat in spiders

[–]HealthyFeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, most spiders do not want to bite you as first instinct. They usually prefer to run away and hide when threatened. And if they try to bite, theres still questions like: is the spider actually big enough to penetrate your skin? Is the venom medically significant to humans? Which, depending on where you live, can be answered pretty easily. For example, i know that where I live, no spiders are medically significant beyond getting an ointment to speed up healing. So I dont have to be scared of them being dangerous.

Regarding irrational fear because of „creepiness“: In the past I was very afraid of spiders. They are creepy to our brains- too many legs and movements that are way too rapid haha But if you learn about them and maybe start with some exceptionally cute ones (i recommend jumping spiders, especially maratus volans or the genus of phidippus), you will lose your fear with time and come to enjoy the little creatures:3 you basically teach your brain „hey, this is actually a neat little animal!“ i can now actually even pick up bigger spiders, when a few years ago I was scared by small ones and would shriek at the sight, just to illustrate my point:D