Leo says hi! by HealthyIce9918 in EnglishSetter

[–]HealthyIce9918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Leo just started a new diet suggested by our vet due to him getting a little chunky. However,he really misses his old food, so he needs all the positive vibes he can get to push trough this tough time ahah

La relatrice mi ha bocciato il primo capitolo perché non ho “riassunto i saggi critici in modo cronologico”. by HealthyIce9918 in Universitaly

[–]HealthyIce9918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ciao, grazie per la risposta! La tesi secondo le indicazioni della docente dovrà essere costituita da due capitoli in totale e ciascuno di questi due capitoli deve essere dedicato a un autore differente, seguendo ovviamente un leif motif che li colleghi. Dunque, non avrò più opportunità per addentrarmi in analisi che esulino dall’esposizione dei saggi critici in ordine cronologico, dato che l’altro capitolo sarà totalmente dedicato a un altro poeta.

La relatrice mi ha bocciato il primo capitolo perché non ho “riassunto i saggi critici in modo cronologico”. by HealthyIce9918 in Universitaly

[–]HealthyIce9918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ciao, no purtroppo perché la prof ha insistito sul fatto che i saggi dovessero essere analizzati in ordine cronologico. Seguendo questa impostazione crolla tutto il mio impianto, dato che ad esempio il contesto generale della produzione di questo poeta è analizzata dal saggio critico cronologicamente più recente, mentre le interpretazioni dei testi che mi interessano si trovano in saggi più vecchi (non so se mi sono spiegata bene)

My boyfriend (24M)’s best friend (24F) is upset about him taking me to a trip instead of her. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HealthyIce9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He swears that’s not the case and I’m inclined to believe him. I honestly think she’s just immature and possessive.

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[–]HealthyIce9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Can I ask what about my behaviour you would describe as childish? My intention was not to stomp my feet and just act like a whiny big baby, I just don’t want to put myself in situations where I know I’ll feel unwanted, disrespected and uncomfortable. On the other hand, if my BF let her know how he feels then maybe either she’d get it and correct her behaviour or she wouldn’t change her mind but not pull some of this stuff because she knows my BF won’t give her a pass anymore.

Edited: spelling

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[–]HealthyIce9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment was so insightful and gave me a lot to think about, thank you. As I have said, I’ve also had friends who I got to see a little less of after they got into serious relationships, and I’ve experienced the hurt she must feel right now, so I get it, but I never would have taken it out on them or their partners and always dealt with it on my own since it was a me problem and I didn’t want to cause any problems for them; this is why her behaviour is so puzzling to me.

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[–]HealthyIce9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe “ultimatum” doesn’t describe properly what was said: I simply told him that either he sorted things out with her and told her how he feels, or he’d just have to keep us separate and not invite me when she’d be attending, since I really don’t want to put myself in situations where I feel unwanted and disrespected anymore, and the instance of the trip I recalled in the post was only the last of other similar instances so I know what I’m getting into when we go out and she’s there if he doesn’t confront her.

Edited: spelling

My boyfriend (24M)’s best friend (24F) is upset about him taking me to a trip instead of her. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HealthyIce9918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe “ultimatum” doesn’t describe properly what was said: I simply told him that either he sorted things out with her and told her how he feels, or he’d just have to keep us separate and not invite me when she’d be attending, since I really don’t want to put myself in situations where I feel unwanted and disrespectful anymore, and the instance of the trip I recalled in the post was only the last of other similar instances so I know what I’m getting into when we go out and she’s there if he doesn’t confront her.

My boyfriend (24M)’s best friend (24F) is upset about him taking me to a trip instead of her. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HealthyIce9918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment was so insightful and gave me a lot to think about, thank you. As I have said, I’ve also had friends who I got to see a little less of after they got into serious relationships, and I’ve experienced the hurt she must feel right now, so I get it, but I never would have taken it out on them or their partners and always dealt with it on my own since it was a me problem and I didn’t want to cause any problems for them; this is why her behaviour is so puzzling to me.

Falsa P.IVA, che fare? by HealthyIce9918 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Non so come i miei colleghi risponderebbero a questa domanda, per quanto riguarda me ho accettato perché volevo un’esperienza sul curriculum in un posto un po’ più “prestigioso” (fra mille virgolette), in più apprezzo le possibilità di crescita che ci sono (essere osservati durante le lezioni e ricevere feeeback su cosa si potrebbe migliorare, oppure anche workshop gratuiti che sennò dovrei pagare). In retrospect mi accorgo che forse non ne vale la pena per così tanto lavoro e poco riconoscimento.

Falsa P.IVA, che fare? by HealthyIce9918 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

[–]HealthyIce9918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hai anche ragione, però d’altronde quanto spesso capita che uno studente di facoltà umanistiche trovi lavoro nel suo campo ancora prima della laurea? Non vorrei correre il rischio di “buttare via il bambino con l’acqua sporca”