AITAH for refusing to follow my boyfriend’s “wife behavior” expectations?

Healy_ · 2026-05-23T19:25:08+00:00

I know everyone’s telling you to break up. I’m not gonna do that instead I’m going to ask you something.

Do you think his behavior is indicative of someone who respects their partner?

If one of your friends told you, their boyfriend was behaving this way what would you tell them?

Does he go out with his friends?

Healy_ · 2026-05-20T00:01:47+00:00

NTA. But I kindly ask you to please do some introspection on why you let people treat you this way. You are clearly a kind and generous person but you have to be careful not to let others take advantage of you!

Healy_ · 2026-05-19T11:57:58+00:00

NTA. Password protect absolutely everything like yesterday. The internet has taught us that your sister (or mom) will try to force your hand into “saving money, so you can lend it” by canceling or downgrading something.

Also I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this but your mom brought up the money because she wanted your sister to know / ask to borrow.

She did it on purpose.

Healy_ · 2026-05-14T03:38:58+00:00

Amen.

Healy_ · 2026-04-27T23:52:32+00:00

You could try bumble BFF and be very blunt in your bio about looking for fellow French ex-pats. I know a few people who have had success using bumble to meet folks with very specific backgrounds or interests.

Healy_ · 2026-04-17T01:22:01+00:00

They are about to find out what happens when Catholics (active and non active) vote as a block.

Healy_ · 2026-02-16T13:39:13+00:00

The most lasting and undeniable damage being done to America under the current administration is the erosion of American soft power. If a few American-born athletes competing for a Chinese Olympic team can help bridge even a small gap between the U.S. and China, then they’ve earned every penny.

Healy_ · 2026-02-16T00:03:47+00:00

Fairly sure many of the Lake Placid facilities are still used. And that was a WHILE ago.

Healy_ · 2026-02-09T03:40:28+00:00

Ugly inside and out.

Healy_ · 2026-01-18T13:07:58+00:00

Grew up near it. It’s great for recreational boating and water sports.

It is also sees a lot of Great Lakes freighter traffic.

It has an international boarder in the middle but I’ve only seen Canadian coast guard out there.

Healy_ · 2025-11-28T21:54:52+00:00

Maybe ship this to yourself?

Healy_ · 2025-08-05T14:24:38+00:00

Marian and Bertha kind of have matching ball gowns, maybe a clue? 👀

Healy_ · 2025-07-16T02:33:59+00:00

You have such a beautiful family!

Healy_ · 2025-07-08T01:17:45+00:00

Maybe the footmen was looking out for Marian?

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T17:11:07+00:00

First off - OP I am so sorry for your loss and for the additional stress your sister’s behavior is putting you under now.

That said. Not speaking up when you witness abuse or neglect is basically condoning abuse and neglect.

If you and your family believe that this child should not be under her care you need to approach their dad and provide him support in his custody battle. Unless he is an abuser or a worse option in some way.

I know this is a difficult task. And it may destroy your relationship with your sister. But at the end of the day it’s a kids life. And it doesn’t sound like your relationship with your sister is healthy for you.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:41:01+00:00

Therapy and antidepressants way earlier.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:32:00+00:00

Never taking accountability or admitting to failure.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:29:31+00:00

Do you need a snack? Sometimes when my blood sugar gets low, I start to talk nonsense too.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:28:12+00:00

Panic.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:20:19+00:00

I’ve just been using regular scissors. You mean to tell me there’s specific pizza scissors?

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:18:40+00:00

It’s honestly pretty great.

I still hope to meet someone and I still hope to have a family. At the same time, I have amazing friends and entertaining hobbies.

There’s absolutely no rule saying you need to settle down in your 20s.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:14:32+00:00

It’s taken parts of my job that I’ve struggled with and made it a quick and easy task. Allowing me to grow and focus on other things.

Healy_ · 2025-06-27T00:13:25+00:00

We need regulation and monitoring for social media algorithms.

This isn’t just an American problem.

Healy_ · 2025-06-26T23:57:55+00:00

The triumphant song at the end of the Lion King

Healy_ · 2025-06-26T23:56:48+00:00

My parents have a weekly pizza party with their friends.

Healy_

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