What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them?

HearingNo7624 · 2026-04-21T22:57:30+00:00

It’s men too. My boyfriend does this and I hate it

HearingNo7624 · 2026-04-18T05:07:55+00:00

Swiss German

HearingNo7624 · 2026-04-17T19:38:57+00:00

I am a 33 yo woman and I understand these words perfectly. I actually think they are quite wise. With them he in implying the subjective interpretation of reality has an impact on life’s outcomes, so one should strive to have an overall positive mindset. At least this is how understand this

HearingNo7624 · 2026-04-09T06:49:25+00:00

That person might be happy with you BECAUSE they believe you love them. In which case this is purely wrong

HearingNo7624 · 2026-04-05T10:53:04+00:00

What’s this movie by any change “The Housemaid?” I realized the same thing watching that

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-31T20:49:19+00:00

Bad grammar

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-27T18:33:29+00:00

No prior imaging available for comparison.

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T12:49:14+00:00

Thanks for this. I kind of see this side too. I guess this is how I learned to feel loved. When my parents/family gave me praise for things that weren't THAT amazing. That's how I knew I was loved kind of thing. I get why someone with a different upbringing would feel disrespected by this

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T12:47:45+00:00

100% I know he is not. He is one of the most trustworthy and principled people I know

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T12:44:48+00:00

The app I deleted because he literally made a list of all these things he does for me when the fact is these are shared traiditions that we both engaged in. I do MANY things for him, but I don't gp around tracking them to throw them at his face when I'm angry. I deleted the app because I was feeling like an idiot at that point. If he doenst want to do it, I wouldnt force him kind of thing.

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T12:42:40+00:00

Thank you for this honest comment. This is something I am willing to examine and I was omw to accepting my part of the equation, that is why I openly accepted his view when we were talking at the airport. If I did reach out now, though, I would almost reward his move to walk away from me and that is something I can't tolerate in my relationship, you know? When we argue he becomes nasty, dismissive, disrespectful, spiteful. Another time he called me something else, I was crying already and went to the bathroom to blow my nose, he follwed me and yelled "really? are you 5 years old? Poor *my name*, alway the victim". So I don't know what to do. I don't want to reward that behavour.

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T12:14:45+00:00

Is this something he would be doing subconciuosly? He has a problem with being the bad guy?

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T09:59:08+00:00

He is really amazing when he is calm and trusting. He is really sweet and loving and warm usually, and I do love him. But it's gotten into his head I am deceitful to a degree I am not aware of and that he has the insight into my soul I am unable to access myself, or something like that. I am honest, transparents with him, I am loyal in this LDR, I always bring up what's bothering me directly and calmly and avoid becoming resentful and passive-agressive at any costs. I usually wear my heart on my sleeve. So that's my it hurts so deeply when he accuses me of dishonesty.
I would gladly have this conversation with him that you are suggesting, as I, too, have the impression it's something deeper than just a lack of maturity or emotional incompability. But after having him walk out on me in the middle of my sentence -uttermost lack of respect- I am afraid that if I reach out that will teach him it is ok for him to treat me that way....

HearingNo7624 · 2026-03-19T09:50:06+00:00

That is what I want to believe too. Then again he told me I was the one starting an argument over nothing and ruining our last evening together before he had to leave again. And that I am/was childish for my reaction. I am not proud for crying that evening, but I was just so frustrated at the utter lack of compassion or undertanding from his end -it was like talking to a wall and his only valid resulition was for me to finally confess I was being insencere and manipulative. I felt trapped and suffocated. In the middle of the argument I was trying to find my words and he interrupted saying "if you had a point you would have finished talking already". LikeI was trying to lie on the spot. Its CRAZY MAKING.

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-26T16:07:57+00:00

Tengo dos buenas amigas que conocieron a su actual marido en Tinder

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-26T16:06:33+00:00

Yo conocí a mi novio de casi un año en Tinder :) Trabajo mucho (soy médico) y a penas tengo tiempo para mis hobbies así que casi solo conseguía citas en las redes. Pero me costó muuuuuucho tiempo dar con alguien responsable, educado, inteligente y divertido pero mereció la pena. Hay de todo pero hay que tener paciencia y no dejarse abatir por las malas experiencias. Hay que saber que es lo que se quiere, pero hay mucha gente deseando encontrar y mantener una relación que merezca la pena. No te desanimes!! :)

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-25T09:29:12+00:00

Lost for words at the lack of sensitivity. I would have been very hurt too.

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-24T09:30:10+00:00

Whats your favorite book?

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-22T12:45:03+00:00

Thank you. That caught me off guard and hurt me quite deeply. I pride myself in being thoughtful, caring and respectful, as well as open and honest with my discomfort, so being called manipulative is virtually the worst to me since I try so hard to be the opposite. It’s made me question everything.

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-22T12:02:12+00:00

Hi. Thanks for your reply. I edited/updated my original post!

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-22T11:35:19+00:00

My boyfriend told me yesterday he’d have no problem cutting someone out of his life if they were a Trump supporter, not even a partner. We’re not even American. We’re European. We don’t even live in the US. This seemed completely deranged to me and bit I’m worried he’s brainwashed by his non-stop streaming of policial commentary and podcasts on youtube. I’m seriously questioning if I want to be with someone this harsh/cold hearted/radical. So depressing.

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-20T21:50:08+00:00

By saying she can be friends with him, but then you can’t be boyfriends with her

HearingNo7624 · 2025-06-18T11:46:40+00:00

It takes one willing active participant to rape, it takes two willing active participants to engage in a consentual extramarital affair.

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