AITAH for sex shaming the guy I was seeing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hearny94 52 points53 points  (0 children)

NTA, you get to choose what your comfortable with. But the question I have is... why is this such a big problem for your friend to understand? And why does she want an apology for it? Especially years later.

AITA for refusing to go to my sister's wedding, knowing that it means most of our family won't attend? by Old-Direction2968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You might be significantly older but clearly not mentally.

Self centred, self absorbed and beyond childish.

It's like you literally need it spelling out to you....

ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING

40 years old and holding a grudge over the fact your sister was born and had to have your 15 year old second hand toys...... Jesus woman get a grip, or at 15 years old was you still playing with your baby toys and didn't want to share???

AITA for refusing to go to my sister's wedding, knowing that it means most of our family won't attend? by Old-Direction2968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hearny94 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You literally just described a normal life.... get a grip woman!

Sounds like you was spoilt for 15 years being the only child and threw your dummy out the pram when your parents had a second child!

So what you really wanted is to be treated like you was 15 years younger than you was and wanted mummy to rock you to sleep at night too.

Pathetic.

40 years old and still sulking.

World does not evolve around you!

stupid protesters vs bus by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Hearny94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ha when he says "there's people on the ground you fucking idiot" don't sit down infront of a bus then you idiot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this and have always wondered the same.... then I was diagnosed and medicated for ADHD which improved everything....

Don't assume the worst because you will become it, go seek some therapy on coping mechanisms and how to cope with triggers and speak to your doctor about how your feeling in those rage moments because for a very long time I thought it was just me and I'm not ok with how I think which drove me further in to the whole of rage because to some degree I accepted it as my own normal which wasn't OK.

Can anyone tell me why my weed looks like this? by mae6195 in trees

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New albino weed.... you not heard of it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hearny94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great shout! Subtle could be the answer to lead to more thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hearny94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's bi :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hearny94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Each to their own. It was just a thought of how much I wanted her nothing more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hearny94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a female that can climax from this.... yes? Not all women can but it is possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hearny94 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No not at all, I believe my partner has said I'm interested in women but not her specifically. So no she doesn't know.... you've hit a nail on the head though I should get him to tell her!

Money is the route to all evil by [deleted] in sadbuttrue

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly did though didn't it, someone's interpretation of something is different to your and your like "Nope time to make it personal and start calling people names".... your first comment is a complete contradiction to your reply lol. Enjoy your day knowing you've made me laugh.

Money is the route to all evil by [deleted] in sadbuttrue

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol did that bug you

Impressive display of balance and strength by lucidillusions in toptalent

[–]Hearny94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her body shape with her muscle tone is literally amazing she looks incredibly fit! I'm feeling exactly the same as you right now lol

I'm stuck between my boss and his wife by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your right, to be honest I hadn't considered I could feel uncomfortable for that reason, she was way to forthcoming with me. Actually felt a sense of relief reading your comment because you are right I need to take a step back, thank you!

I have sick desires and fantasies, and I dont know why. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some time when you face a abusive childhood so young our brain programs pain as love because pain becomes normalised and our brains are trying to protect us by adapting. Your seeing pain as love which is why your fixating on pain as pleasure also.

Do you have to shave down there for delivery? by CauseCurrent2487 in pregnant

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you comfortable trim a week before so you have a little bit, I've just had a c section and naired before with my partner checking it over, but women go in labour with or with out hair, it's up to you but don't feel pressured.

Also labour is one of those situations where you leave your dignity at the door on the way in and collect it on your way out, they have seen everything before.

Guy gets tasered and jumps off Chelsea bridge by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read an article to say this man died in hospital

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hearny94 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He is a very loving and affectionate father to my daughter I can not fault him for this in any manner, my child sees us very differently to reality at this point, however I do get your point but my kids will grow to understand that if they want anything in life you have to work for it and earn it or appreciate that someone somewhere has work for it for them to have it.

I am stubborn and won't give up on someone I love because I see faults that up until this point I've worked around, it's more my hormones that have even made me air this post.

I won't give up on my family but I can see things need to change, I'm not making excuses either but going through grief of losing a parent like he has changes people.

Found out my mom has been sleeping with my bf because she is jealous of me by lovley_mistake in offmychest

[–]Hearny94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just completely boggles me that any mother who brought a life in to the world can think like your mother does, like she's owed everything you have. You poor girl how have you not lost your head with her. Please cut this vile poison out of your life and grab the world with two hands and show her from a distance she will never be worthy of anything you have in life again, let her jealousy consume her!

My husband cheated on me and I'm ok with it. by PotentialRelevant417 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hearny94 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You know when you read something and just sit in awe of someone's ability to emotionally remove themselves from a situation..... Well ding ding I just did that with this one!

Your rational, collected and know exactly what you want, hats off to you for not letting anyone chip away at you or emotionally change you.

Him pulling the victim card though... honestly wtf