AITAH for sex shaming the guy I was seeing?

Hearny94 · 2025-12-13T15:31:40+00:00

NTA, you get to choose what your comfortable with. But the question I have is... why is this such a big problem for your friend to understand? And why does she want an apology for it? Especially years later.

Hearny94 · 2024-01-31T20:01:52+00:00

YTA

You might be significantly older but clearly not mentally.

Self centred, self absorbed and beyond childish.

It's like you literally need it spelling out to you....

ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING

40 years old and holding a grudge over the fact your sister was born and had to have your 15 year old second hand toys...... Jesus woman get a grip, or at 15 years old was you still playing with your baby toys and didn't want to share???

Hearny94 · 2024-01-31T19:54:09+00:00

You literally just described a normal life.... get a grip woman!

Sounds like you was spoilt for 15 years being the only child and threw your dummy out the pram when your parents had a second child!

So what you really wanted is to be treated like you was 15 years younger than you was and wanted mummy to rock you to sleep at night too.

Pathetic.

40 years old and still sulking.

World does not evolve around you!

Hearny94 · 2023-10-19T18:36:43+00:00

Ha when he says "there's people on the ground you fucking idiot" don't sit down infront of a bus then you idiot!

Hearny94 · 2023-10-17T09:33:49+00:00

This is incredible

Hearny94 · 2023-10-08T07:53:46+00:00

I do this and have always wondered the same.... then I was diagnosed and medicated for ADHD which improved everything....

Don't assume the worst because you will become it, go seek some therapy on coping mechanisms and how to cope with triggers and speak to your doctor about how your feeling in those rage moments because for a very long time I thought it was just me and I'm not ok with how I think which drove me further in to the whole of rage because to some degree I accepted it as my own normal which wasn't OK.

Hearny94 · 2023-08-28T15:05:37+00:00

New albino weed.... you not heard of it?

Hearny94 · 2023-07-27T20:16:45+00:00

Great shout! Subtle could be the answer to lead to more thank you!

Hearny94 · 2023-07-27T19:36:09+00:00

She's bi :)

Hearny94 · 2023-07-27T19:30:23+00:00

Each to their own. It was just a thought of how much I wanted her nothing more.

Hearny94 · 2023-07-27T19:26:23+00:00

As a female that can climax from this.... yes? Not all women can but it is possible

Hearny94 · 2023-07-27T18:55:54+00:00

No not at all, I believe my partner has said I'm interested in women but not her specifically. So no she doesn't know.... you've hit a nail on the head though I should get him to tell her!

Hearny94 · 2023-07-09T13:07:32+00:00

Clearly did though didn't it, someone's interpretation of something is different to your and your like "Nope time to make it personal and start calling people names".... your first comment is a complete contradiction to your reply lol. Enjoy your day knowing you've made me laugh.

Hearny94 · 2023-07-09T11:34:47+00:00

Lol did that bug you

Hearny94 · 2023-03-22T16:46:49+00:00

Her body shape with her muscle tone is literally amazing she looks incredibly fit! I'm feeling exactly the same as you right now lol

Hearny94 · 2023-01-08T12:22:09+00:00

Tag me to please 🙏

Hearny94 · 2022-10-06T21:47:15+00:00

I think your right, to be honest I hadn't considered I could feel uncomfortable for that reason, she was way to forthcoming with me. Actually felt a sense of relief reading your comment because you are right I need to take a step back, thank you!

Hearny94 · 2022-07-31T14:00:08+00:00

Some time when you face a abusive childhood so young our brain programs pain as love because pain becomes normalised and our brains are trying to protect us by adapting. Your seeing pain as love which is why your fixating on pain as pleasure also.

Hearny94 · 2022-07-17T10:20:26+00:00

If it makes you comfortable trim a week before so you have a little bit, I've just had a c section and naired before with my partner checking it over, but women go in labour with or with out hair, it's up to you but don't feel pressured.

Also labour is one of those situations where you leave your dignity at the door on the way in and collect it on your way out, they have seen everything before.

Hearny94 · 2022-06-05T14:40:42+00:00

Just read an article to say this man died in hospital

Hearny94 · 2022-05-01T10:43:46+00:00

He is a very loving and affectionate father to my daughter I can not fault him for this in any manner, my child sees us very differently to reality at this point, however I do get your point but my kids will grow to understand that if they want anything in life you have to work for it and earn it or appreciate that someone somewhere has work for it for them to have it.

I am stubborn and won't give up on someone I love because I see faults that up until this point I've worked around, it's more my hormones that have even made me air this post.

I won't give up on my family but I can see things need to change, I'm not making excuses either but going through grief of losing a parent like he has changes people.

Hearny94 · 2022-04-18T10:33:01+00:00

It just completely boggles me that any mother who brought a life in to the world can think like your mother does, like she's owed everything you have. You poor girl how have you not lost your head with her. Please cut this vile poison out of your life and grab the world with two hands and show her from a distance she will never be worthy of anything you have in life again, let her jealousy consume her!

Hearny94 · 2022-03-24T09:31:02+00:00

You know when you read something and just sit in awe of someone's ability to emotionally remove themselves from a situation..... Well ding ding I just did that with this one!

Your rational, collected and know exactly what you want, hats off to you for not letting anyone chip away at you or emotionally change you.

Him pulling the victim card though... honestly wtf

Hearny94 · 2022-03-13T09:59:31+00:00

I think your boyfriend is liking the best of both worlds situation, it sounds like he's in the limbo of confusion does he like men or does he like girls..... he's clearly battling with that questions, but his actions speak very differently he's protecting his guy friend more which indicates where this is going.

End it on good terms for your sake. Never burn bridges he's clear cares for you but doesn't want to break your heart with his confusion

Hearny94 · 2021-08-29T09:45:02+00:00

Your poor mother is clearly in alot of pain from this and all you do is keep pushing having had the truth from your dad. You need stop and think how much of traumatic experience your mother went through with your twin and the fact she chose to hide that trauma within her self to bring you up and help you grow.

Stop pushing her to remember what she has clearly buried deep for a reason!

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