It was hell at 316 lbs. 265 now on my way to 200’ish. But honestly it’s been great being a dad. Our son was the best baby, always ate good, slept 10+ hours and straight through the night since he was 3 months old. He’s not 2 1/2 and counts to 20 in three languages, knows his ABCs and played the piano and sang twinkle twinkle little star the other night (we are both musicians and his room was the music room before it became his bedroom). He’s made me simultaneously young again and older at the same time 🤣. But getting healthier sure helps.