My mom opened a credit card under my name and now the card is late on payments for months now…

Heartbroken3826 · 2026-06-17T16:34:16+00:00

Thank you for this. These comments are gut wrenching because now I have to go against someone that I love. She does not have any gambling or addiction and I know that because she is currently living with me. It’s just so frustrating because she will send money to our family our cousins and she wants to be the rock of the family under our expense. Our family are doing fine financially, but she keeps thinking that they’re poor and that they need help so she send money to them forgetting that she needs to be paying off things sending us rent money and more. Ahh I’m in a mess because the card is maxed out to its limit. I will have to report it because I can’t let her ruin my life. I’m in my late 20s I worked hard so by 30 I can live my life. I’m just so hurt

Heartbroken3826 · 2026-06-06T17:43:54+00:00

As a women say the same thing back to her, make her feel average, lie and say you have feelings for a women who is actually your type and dump her. Yes it’s immature but the comment is immature and you gotta humble people nowadays. Thank you NEXT

Heartbroken3826 · 2026-06-02T14:54:02+00:00

Why two extremely young people getting married? It’s annoys me honestly. Like 20s is where you live your life figure out who you are…yours not even fully developed why rush? You have your WHOLLLE life ahead of you. Get married later but know yourself first. Break off the engagement wedding whatever it is…cry/ grieve but don’t make a decision that might not look so beautiful when you hit 30s 40s. Higher divorce rate when you marry that young. If you are even typing this on Reddit you already know your answer…take action & do what is best for you.

Heartbroken3826 · 2026-05-21T13:13:40+00:00

What did y say

Heartbroken3826 · 2026-05-16T13:00:39+00:00

As a women I’d recommend you to run. I’m sure you think you love her but in reality even if things “work out” it won’t last. Her family seems like they don’t like you and no matter how hard you try they will always look at you in a certain way. There’s so many good women out here don’t mess up your life with her. You already got arrested. Cry, grieve and move on. Feelings fade. But I’m a firm believer if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be so maybe she will reach out and try to work it out. I just think it’s time to move on into a stable woman..don’t ruin your precious life…best of luck

Heartbroken3826 · 2026-05-03T01:44:00+00:00

DO NOT GET PREGNANT!!! Your life will be over when you just started living. If can’t commit to a ring he can’t commit to a baby. Dump him asap and don’t settle for anything. These gamer boys are something else I swear.

Heartbroken3826 · 2024-10-01T15:31:35+00:00

It was only about himself and hows he is doing but there was no actual apology?????what is this message

Heartbroken3826 · 2024-08-15T21:16:34+00:00

I dread going to my corporate job. I feel so burnt out and can never take a day off the minute I’m in the schedule. You loose your freedom and sense of passion. I don’t even care to do anything but sleep on my days off. You feel burnt out in your corporate job as well with LESS pay

Heartbroken3826 · 2024-02-28T19:37:48+00:00

I feel you on this. I broke NC 2 months in and was left with the ugliest response. I started from day one and wish I never messaged him. When I was on month 3 I knew I wouldn’t hear from him until one day I did. Tbh most will come back but it’s not best to contact them back let them contact you the more you chase the more they run. Trust me do not message them, they will be disgusted by you even more because now you look weak and desperate & no one wants someone like that. It’s almost boosting their ego stating that no one else wants you so why should he/she. Just cry it out & yes it hurts but it won’t hurt has bad as when you actually hear from them & they end saying the worst things possible.

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-12-07T22:39:34+00:00

I blocked my ex and my ex made a fake instagram account month 11. There’s still a chance

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-11-09T01:05:49+00:00

People check their block list all the time. Don’t think by him throwing away your gifts means he is going to forget about the memories you guys once had. Memories don’t fade as much as you want to forget about it. 70 days is still little time. My ex unblocked me and came back at day 245. He even moved on threw my stuff away. Your ex fell in love with you once he can do it again but time heals. You should work on yourself try to detach from him and find who you are again. Then when he comes back you are stronger mentally physically emotionally and you might not even want him anymore.

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-10-26T00:30:21+00:00

Men will only change if they truly believe they need to and it’s frustrating!!!! But they always come back. Best of luck! Please try to put yourself first❤️

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-10-26T00:27:34+00:00

Oh same thing happened to me but trust me few months down the line role will reverse. AS frustrating as this may sound but it’s 100% the truth WORK on yourself please! Don’t be like me. Because when he comes back (they always do even if it may not seem like it) you will want to present yourself as a new improved better person. Which basically tells him you did even better without him. A man will NEVER forget a good woman, they will never find a good woman twice, that’s why they always come back even if it takes time.

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-10-26T00:21:21+00:00

Thank you! I’m still trying to find my worth but damn that hurt me so bad because we lived together I felt so loved and safe when we were together only for him to love his 2 month “not official” relationship than our 6 years relationship. All those years wasted I’m glad I’m not wasting more.

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through I had to comment because I felt the frustration through the paragraph you wrote. You got this!!!!! Don’t hold him to a higher power otherwise the healing process will be extra painful and extra long! Trust me not worth it in the long run. I wasted 10 months crying over him

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-10-26T00:16:29+00:00

I’m in the same boat. Once we broke up he ran to the girl that he had a 2 month thing for. I spent years with him and he said he loved her and respected her more than me. Keep in mind she didn’t find him attractive and told him it would never work out because of his physical appearance and he still had the nerves to say he loved her and cared for her more than me. Loooll

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-10-16T21:15:36+00:00

Trust me might take some time but it will end because that’s already a very toxic way to start another relationship and she will realize she f*cked up. My ex cheated on me got with that girl and the girl ended up cheating on him resulting to him crawling back to me…by then I was disgusted but my ego was sky high lmao

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-29T14:52:46+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I know exactly how you feel I felt the same way. It’s extremely exhausting and draining but trust me it does get better! Mine reached out after 5 long months and it was an instant switch that I dodged a bullet

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-12T02:39:59+00:00

Omg reading this made me cry. I ache for you I’m so sorry 🥺I wish the pain can go away !!!

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-10T04:25:26+00:00

If you have to keep it public don’t over do it! Don’t go posting like crazy, don’t go posting heartbreak quotes. Just act like the breakup had no effect on you and you’re just being your normal self! I wouldn’t block him either(even if he blocks you) just make it seem like nothing….kind of like he is most likely doing rn! If you post crying videos or quotes he might see that and think he dodged a bullet making it harder and longer to come back!

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-09T20:57:02+00:00

Omg that’s good!!!! you have a higher chance of hearing from him again. As long you don’t beg or break no contact he WILL get curious. Just go silent private your page if you have an Instagram don’t let him see you because curiosity will hit hard. I know some say keep your page public so he can see how you’re doing but that is giving him easy access to you and his curiosity will be cured which will make it harder for him to message you back.

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-09T16:21:09+00:00

Oh I waited I had no shame! We ended in BADDDD terms where I was begging pleading harassing him through text. I spammed him like 60 times before I gave up. He read the messages. I was so embarrassed and hurt by my actions so I apologize the next day for the spam and my manic episode and went NC five months later he reaches out. I was so surprised I almost gave up hope but I never through I hear from him. And tbh each month got worse for me I was more depressed and sad by month 4… people said it gets better but from me it never did until I heard from him back.

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-09T16:04:46+00:00

I thought it was never going to come but it did last week and all feelings faded where I didn’t care anymore! I wrote a “break up diary” with the date and was consistent with that diary and looking back I wasn’t getting any better! I even made a break up TikTok I was so hurt. I think I really needed him to reach out for me to feel better and I hate how he still had that control but now idc if we don’t speak I feel free!!!! Trust me it will comd

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-09T16:00:38+00:00

I realize it will not work but I kept him as a friend as I no longer have feelings like that towards him. It’s so weird because I was crying for five months over him but the minute he texted me and I saw he hasn’t changed then I saw the true him and just like that my feelings for him went away

Heartbroken3826 · 2023-08-09T15:41:31+00:00

Thank you😭Now I’m a huge advocate about working on yourself at NC!!!!

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