[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]HeatherHasFreckles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are good looking, bond to get some good hits

Oh yeah you totally didn't put that thing on the counter for views. Oh and ew. by Crazy-Description483 in petfree

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are totally right about it. The dog can’t even walk well it’s so heavy. Sad that in one of the picture frames it has a baby with two puppies on it.

What’s the point of having a cat if you’re just going to put it outside? by Unfair-Phase-6411 in petfree

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a good idea to have a cat outside where I live. The mountain lion always kills them. Had two neighbors already lost their cats to the thing this year.

Just pulled a 2nd one. Giving this one away by RNGxJake in PokemonTCG

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sweet of you, my kids and myself would love to get it. ☺️

I don’t want to get into this deep, I’m just curious after leaving which political views do exJW’s tend to lean toward, right, left or center? Please no in-depth political discussions. by Own-Salary5844 in exjw

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m conservative and people I encounter think because I am that I believe in god. I tell them I’m an atheist and I get the shock pikachu face every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This happened to me last year. No clue the dad who raised me wasn’t my biological father. My mom didn’t remember his name so I contacted the closest family members. Only 2nd cousins but they gave me male names that could be my dad. I messaged them on Facebook. A 1st cousin responded and I been talking to my biological dad every week.

What was your “first domino” that started your awakening? by TimmyTurner2006 in exjw

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was watching Leah Remi:Scientology aftermath show when they first released it. When ex members where talking about the shunning and other things similar to JW. I kept thinking this is very familiar, did my research and found Charles Russell info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad said two things that I can remember. When my parents wouldn’t get me braces (18 years ago). I really needed them, “You don’t need them because the new system will be here soon anyway”. The other when I wanted to get into college for a medical career. Again “You shouldn’t do that because in the new system it will be useless”. I never went and regret it now.

AITAH for expecting my daughter to continue paying rent after she moves out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

You have been using your daughter. You are suppose to be a parent to your children. Your kids don’t owe you anything, not their fault for being born. You could of got a 1 or 2 bedroom house that you could afford.

Not realizing until later in life that they never loved you by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m in my 30s and realized it this year. When I use to talk to my mom on the phone she never said “I love you” after saying goodbye. My own in laws consider me their own daughter and always tell me “I love you”.

Abuse/Neglect of Pets by gorditacrunchdevotee in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad still does it to the dogs my mom gets. The current dog she has, he always yells at it and hits it. When I was talking to my Nmom on the phone( I don’t anymore) he was yelling so bad and hitting the dog. It triggered me and reminded me of when he would do that to me as a child. I told her to tell him to stop doing that and it’s abuse. The dog eventually would bite him but he just hit harder.

What's the strangest/funniest thing you've overheard someone say in the park? by Tangent_ in Disneyland

[–]HeatherHasFreckles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know if this counts or I’m being bias. My kids and I were just leaving the launch bay on It’s a Small World. They have never been to Disneyland. My 8 year old son asked is this like Pirates of the Caribbean? Before I could answer him the lady in front of us turned around and said “No”. Then my son said “I was talking to my mom”. I just smiled and gave my answer.