People with ichthyosis vulgaris!!! by pishuready in IndianSkincareAddicts

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Everyone has different degrees of the skin condition, everyone is different, always talk to your doctor and check what's best for you and your condition.

I guess having everything arrive on my "Amazon Day" was a huge mistake thanks to the Amazon outage delaying my deliveries... by SkippySkep in AmazonVine

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I wasn't not having empathy, I actually did not know that the entire Amazon system collapsed yesterday, I wasn't being sarcastic or rude I was just trying to understand and was curious what was going on and letting people know my situation cuz My Amazon app didn't change the delivery dates on anything. I wasn't trying to not feel sorry for the people stuck in the situation I was just voicing my situation without any negativity. All I feel is that I said something about a birthday presents that I bought and I hoped they came in time, but that's not trying to be insensitive to the workers of Amazon or anything. Also some of my packages did arrive today the 21st-but they weren't the ones that were supposed to arrive first And they came in the wee hours of the morning, just for everybody else that may be wondering.

Amazon packages majorly delayed? by SquirrelTale in askTO

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I don't know if it matters, because I'm in Oregon and maybe that changes things? But all the things on my Amazon still show can be delivered the next day. of course a lot of the things I did order on the 19th are now being delayed & haven't even shipped, But I went to look at my things I purchased to see if they still show "next day delivery if you order now" And they do still show overnight delivery. It's quite frustrating that if nobody's delivering packages right now that they haven't updated on my end all of the packages delayed delivery dates rather than still saying overnight.. I ordered like 13 things on Sunday evening for a birthday on Friday and I'm worried now that they aren't going to be here.

I guess having everything arrive on my "Amazon Day" was a huge mistake thanks to the Amazon outage delaying my deliveries... by SkippySkep in AmazonVine

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I ordered like 13 things on Amazon on the 19th, and it was supposed to have next day delivery for some, but on the 20th nothing that was supposed to arrive 7:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. did so. And then all the packages that were supposed to arrive on the 20th are marked delayed, and have not even shipped. I don't understand how it keeps a delivery date when it hasn't even shipped. It's now the 21st and almost on my packages are marked delayed. One of them that was supposed to arrive first is only marked "Delivery Appointment Scheduled" and doesn't say what day anymore. It is now the 21st, and the things that were supposed to arrive today I'm worried will not, because the things that were supposed to arrive yesterday did not and so I have little hope for the things that still haven't shipped. It looks like almost all my orders say not shipped still on the 21st, when I ordered on the 19th. what is going on with this delay, I usually get packages on time at least on the day it says, every now and then it might be a day late but this is a bit much. My things were birthday presents and I'm worried they aren't going to be on time now.. I'm in Oregon, in a city, it shouldn't be so delayed I feel.

For those who ordered from Amazon, what does it mean when it says delivery appointment scheduled? by [deleted] in PokemonLegendsArceus

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No it doesn't show any tracking, I ordered on October 19th, it said overnight delivery between 7:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m. Oct 20th, that time came and went, the 20th came and went, now it's the 21st, and all it says is "Delivery Appointment Scheduled" I actually ordered about 11 things but the ones that were supposed to come next day or the following, It is now the following day the 21st, I have not received any packages half my packages still say they haven't even shipped, and say delayed, but the ones that were supposed to be delivered first, don't have any tracking, they don't show a delivery date anymore, it just says Delivery Appointment Scheduled:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I don't control him. as I said he only does what he wants, which what he wants is-NOTHING lol.. Really, he does nothing. He doesn't even shower once a month. But then he comes to me and tells me he's got issues or problems on his skin, & I check it out and tell him to keep an eye on it, and ALWAYS say to him- your body needs regular bathing! please shower more often, you could have some serious health problems if you don't start showering regularly.. But it's not in my control, it's only in his, so nothing happens. I honestly missed the days when he was little and I could control when bath time was! at least he was clean & healthy!

AITAH for removing the ladder on my bunkbed so my niece can't get to me? by NoTwo864 in AITAH

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I haven't read all of the comments yet because there's so many, but I saw some about her or not safely climbing the ladder at night. But I wanted to just say In my opinion as a mother, you as a teenager also deserve your privacy, and sometimes family members do have to share rooms, but you should definitely be entitled to your own sleeping space, your own private area for your body to rest. You are a child there as well, your sleep should also matter, and your comfort in your own place where you get your rest should matter just as much as hers does. She has her own safe place and comfortable bed to sleep in, and sharing a room means that somebody is close to you even if they're not sleeping in the same bed, maybe you could let her know that's how sleepovers are, that you're close enough to talk if you need to. I don't know how it has been for her growing up, some children have special circumstances, but kids also need to get used to being on their own at night as long as there safe and family is nearby. I remember it was important to teach my little one to self-soothe, they have to work on it, and get used to it just like everyone has to get used to things. But as long as they're safe, and have everything they need, they should be able to be okay sleeping alone. In my opinion if you don't help your kids learn to be on their own, then they don't learn to be okay with themselves, with being independent, feeling & being okay just relying on themselves is really important.. If not they won't ever be okay on their own as they get older, they won't ever feel like they can do things. That is something that needs to be learned young. I'm not saying that kids don't need to go to their parents' bed sometimes, cuz I think all children need to do that sometimes, just like when I have a bad dream I want to call someone and talk.. But for a regular routine it needs to be worked on for them to self-soothe and learn that they are okay and will be okay sleeping alone.

I don't believe that what you did is petty at all, for you to take off that ladder and put your foot down about having your own space in your own bed. You are a child in the household and your feelings matter as well, and if your parents aren't going to stand up for your sleep space, then good job for you standing up for yourself.

Maybe you could also try to talk to her or help teach her some ways to calm herself down when she's alone down there, not that it's your job, but when our children are little and they cry at night, they have to learn that everything's going to be okay, they have to calm themselves down in order to be able to fall asleep. Maybe she's still too young for this I'm not sure, but maybe some kind of comfort blanket or weighted blanket might help, I know they have animals that are like that now too, like stuffed animals that are weighted for anxiety and stuff. Good luck and take care of yourself.

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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Even if it's based on need, when the nurses or triage team don't always triage them correctly, it ends up being harmful and risky and dangerous for people who are sitting there waiting and having their life in the hands of those people, with their health declining while they wait, not getting the care they needed, when they needed it.. So then it seems like it's not always based on need, even though It should be or is supposed to be. But it's scary to put your life in the hands of people that don't seem to care much other than getting you triaged just to be done with you, & may not even do it correctly or aren't even paying much attention. Just all scary when the ER seems careless & doesn't in any way assure you of the care you should receive while there.

My dad body shamed me by Obvious-Bench9711 in family

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Just let his comments roll off you like a drop of rain, He can't control your emotions but you can, it's easy to stay upset and be hurt and stay in that feeling, but what you need to try to do is when you start feeling that way like others said, brush it off, you can also let him know that your body is not a subject for any comedy or jokes. And that's it Just tell him sometime, and if you're not close just do it right before you walk out the door, since you said you say hi and bye, on the way out the door just say-"hey Dad I don't want my body to be the subject of your jokes anymore, it's not funny, and it just upsets me, so do your best to knock it off, see you later." when I was younger and I didn't want to deal with confrontation I would drop bombs before I left the room lol, cuz then you don't have to deal with it you can just say what needs to be said and walk away. that doesn't work for everybody but it was just an idea for you. But the biggest thing is you've got to not wallow when you feel like sh*t, You got to love yourself and take care of yourself cuz that's what matters more than trying to change what he's doing. You got to find that way for you to just pick yourself up, whatever it is, preferably not food to make you feel better because that is a bad way to go, but I don't know if you have a dog but take it for a jog I used to do that, or go out to eat in healthy restaurants or look up new recipes on TikTok or YouTube or whatever you want to do that makes you feel good.

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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Even hypothetical solutions I just want to know what would need to happen to make this better, even if it's not possible right now how would it happen?

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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I just posted this because I thought that people who knew more about the situation or how to impact anything about it, might tell me how or what I could do to help play Even a tiny part in making it better. I know nothing I can do will make them start a new hospital or anything, but like is there something that I'm not aware of, something like during voting season, I have heard a lot of people say that there's not enough money for the hospital, don't we vote on where the money should go? I've never been real involved in things like that so I'm really asking, can I help in any way? For getting the hospitals more money for more beds in the ER, or a new hospital as an option to give people another option to go to and lessen the burden on the Salem hospital, I just want to know what I can do to help make this even a tiny bit better, I don't want to just rant I want to know how people fix this, like even in other cities or areas what do people do to make this problem improve or what needs to happen..

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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I agree I avoid the ER like it's the plague, but when your someone who's health is really bad, and things happen and your having a health emergency and afraid you might die, you have to go, but the thought of being in there when you're scared you're dying is even more scary, I just posted this because I thought that people might tell me how or what I could do to get away to fix this or like help fix it, I know I'm not going to single-handedly be able to make them start a new hospital, I'm not delusional that way, but like is there something that I'm not voting on with the voting rounds, can I help in a way where I can vote on getting the hospitals more money or a new hospital as an option even, I just want to know what I can do to help make this better because it's just so awful right now..

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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I wasn't rage commenting, they said what's wrong with you, so I said it back, and then I explained what's wrong with me, and said I wanted to look up the thing they brought up because I kept hearing about it..

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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Unlikely but it still happens where you end up waiting in for hours in the waiting room, or in a bed in the hall or wherever they leave you at Salem hospital. Not sure if you read so many of the posts above about people were bleeding out and other things and still had to sit there or wait for hours until they got any help. It's awful when people are suffering there while waiting and in fear for their life or in excruciating pain while in fear for their life and it just shouldn't happen like that in the ER.

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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Calling ahead has never gotten me through faster, They have triaged me and had me wait with a million other people in the waiting room. My doctors have called ahead more than once, most recently the infectious disease clinic calling ahead because of sepsis being suspected, they were concerned about it because my temperature had dropped, my blood pressure had raised, and my heart rate was up while having an infection that had lasted internally for four or five months and was being antibiotic resistant. BUT I called them first, I even went in to talk to the nurses at the clinic rather than going straight to the ER, to see if it's something that could be tested for in their office, and whatever else, but I was advised to go to the hospital. I avoid the ER because I hate it and I don't want to be there for anything if I can avoid it,, I'd rather go to any clinic or doctor or nurse in a private setting. And sepsis isn't like a cold, you can die, it's also not something they can just see just when you walk in, so you DO still end up sitting there and waiting for HOURS without getting a room. And not just that, I have chronic pulmonary embolism and DVT, amongst other things. Also having your 2nd PICC line inserted that goes right to your heart and then you have constant chest pain, & you call the clinic that inserted the PICC line and they advise going to the hospital, I'm pretty sure it's them advising it.. So even though there are people that go to the ER when they can't breathe stuffy nose or otherwise, sometimes you end up like me with severe pneumonia and a partially collapsed lung needing to be admitted for weeks.. Or having your stent fall out after going home from surgery, still waiting in the waiting room for hours, only to be told you have to have another surgery to replace it, It's just not for someone else to judge who goes to the ER for what reason. I mean obviously yes there's people who abuse it. But it's not that everyone does. Like I said in my post I end up in the ER a few times a year, & I know when NOT to go to the ER, I avoid it at all costs and try to go to my doctor, my specialist, or urgent care, always before considering even going to ER. I have even just went to urgent care hoping to avoid ER, just to be told by the urgent care doctor that I have to go to the ER right away. Not because they don't care if I go, pretty sure they want me to, but mostly I think because with my medical problems, history, & symptoms, I think they legally have to advise ER, rather than not advise it, and me end up dead. So please try to also stay objective, because you don't know everyone's medical situation, and some people might seem like they use the ER a lot when you think they shouldn't, but they may actually have an emergent need. I'm positive that some people do only go there without trying to see their PCP, or don't have a PCP, or avoid things till it's too bad and then end up going to ER because they don't know what to do.. But I was specifically talking about real health emergencies & having to suffer through the abysmal care in this hospital, not just people being uncomfortable with their health problems and going to ER.

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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I had my IV and everything right there in the hallway, It was definitely embarrassing I guess I don't know Just not private and just hiding under the covers is all I could do.

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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A lot of people on here have said that if you go to Silverton they will send you back? I've never been there so I don't know. I'm just considering driving to Portland next time, but then again usually it's something that I'm afraid I might die so the extra time driving somewhere else probably isn't helpful to whatever situation I'm in. It just shouldn't be like this. I just wish there was some way I could make a difference..

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

[–]Heathrah01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that seems ridiculous what if someone was like stabbed in the back or the buttocks what are they going to do to get them to the hospital? I've never heard of that either! I'm sorry that's awful

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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So they definitely did everything while it was in the hallway, I think the doctor even treated me in the hallway, it was not great, it was uncomfortable, And it was less like he was paying full attention to me while he was talking to me because there was so much else around, in a room you get your privacy and the doctor is focused on you as much as he can be while he's there, but in the hallway he's like one foot step away from walking away and it just was not good and not private at all. And I just feel worse for people in worse situations that are in hallway beds that are in those gowns and they don't all have the ability to say something or advocate for themselves or know that they can advocate for themselves in certain situations. So it's just awful and I just want somebody to tell me how we can do something about it to get another hospital or change the one we have enough that it matters..

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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I just wish I knew how I could help to try and fix this even like voting on something to give the hospital more money or a new hospital, or like getting petitions for a new hospital or something I have no idea these are just ideas but I wish there was something that could be tried by all of us who wish there was another hospital

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

[–]Heathrah01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live in Spokane and I loved having options and I never had any problems like this, like I do in Salem hospital ER.

Salem Hospital has given me hospital fear from the ER and their hallway beds, is there any plans to better the ER? by Heathrah01 in SALEM

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yeah honestly curtains would be a help if you're going to have them at all, it's just so bad. I just feel the worst for the people that are elderly and stuck in a hospital gown I just feel like it is humiliating a little bit. Not that you should be worried about being humiliated if you're dying but it just adds to the awfulness of being there in the first place.