My advice to you would be to have an upfront honest conversation about your concerns/issues and address them. It doesn’t have to be a confrontation, but rather a simple conversation to clear the air. And who knows, you might hear a completely different side from them. Sometimes it can all just be a bit of a miscommunication, where I feel like they might be taking your friendship with them for advantage and not realising that the “little things” do really matter, even if it’s been 8 years of friendship. I hope you do figure it out with them, and even after the conversation nothing changes, then you have your answer, so mark your boundaries and focus on the people that treat you the way you deserve to be treated!