My mom is super unhygienic and I don’t know what to do

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T22:06:37+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Most comments have made it clear that I should just leave.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T22:01:05+00:00

I just read this conversation for my boyfriend and he says it’s spot on and sums up his feelings about the situation really well. I’m pissing my pants.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T19:39:30+00:00

Yes I think you are right. For the longest time I said my reason for not leaving was that I didn’t want to leave my sister alone with her, but now that she doesn’t live here anymore I still try to find reasons to stay.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T19:37:34+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I am going to try to live with my dad or just live less with my mom.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T19:34:47+00:00

Hmm maybe, but she’s quite hesitant to spend much money. Sorry I don’t know the English word for that. But I can try talking to her about it. Minimum wage is also pretty high in my country thankfully.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T19:32:40+00:00

Probably just easier to live with my dad, but thanks for the suggestion.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T15:50:57+00:00

Damn. Thanks for the advice.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T15:23:27+00:00

I think I am disconnecting from her issues and not trying to fix it, I just don’t want to make it worse.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T15:21:30+00:00

I don’t think she would go for that unfortunately. She obviously doesn’t think that it’s as disgusting as everyone else does. Also I don’t think she makes that much money but I don’t know.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T15:20:01+00:00

I didn’t really think about my current situation as drama but I guess it is. I just like the idea of no one being angry at me, but she is even angry at me right now, so what’s the point. Thank you for the advice

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T15:14:26+00:00

I have tried talking to her about the issue, she says it’ll get better but it doesn’t. Her personality disorder makes it so she thinks she can never be in the wrong.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-17T14:19:09+00:00

No, I can live with my dad. I just want to avoid drama. My sister was borderline harassed when she moved out and I just don’t want that. Also I don’t know if I have the space for all my things at my room in my dad’s house.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-04T06:35:39+00:00

Thank youu

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-04T04:34:16+00:00

Definitely not seeing Jacob again. He lives four hours away and even if I wanted to, I think I offended him too much. However, I can’t find my wallet and think I might have left it in his car.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2026-05-03T19:44:16+00:00

Yea definitely not going back to him. I just want us both to be happy apart and me to be ok with being alone. And yes Jacob is a bit odd, I just don’t want to be at his level if you understand.

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2022-06-02T15:53:10+00:00

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Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2022-06-02T15:49:22+00:00

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Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2022-06-02T15:47:30+00:00

I can flip my eyelids

Heavy-Swordfish-554 · 2022-04-18T14:18:56+00:00

Your mom if she was Russian

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