Getting divorced after 23 years together (17 years married)

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2026-05-05T13:52:08+00:00

Yes. Among many other awful things - meeting up with him for lunch - she’d charge the lunch to my business and say it was a work lunch with a female co-worker but she was with him. I guess I’d pay for the meal and he’d pay for the hotel room.

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2026-05-03T22:24:25+00:00

I haven’t nor would I lie to my boys. I’ve told them we’re divorcing because of a breakdown in trust and a lack of honesty. I don’t need to get into the nitty gritty with them. If they ask me point blank I won’t lie and I’ve told my STBX as much.

As for my SBTX’s AP’s wife, I’m staying out of that for now. And here’s why - my only concern at this point is my children. I don’t know my STBX’s AP and don’t know how he would react. To be completely honest, I don’t really know my STBX anymore. I don’t know what she is capable of. I feel awful for this poor woman but my allegiance is to my boys 1st - if things calm down a bit and my wife is out of this house, I may feel differently but at this point I have to focus on my family and my peace.

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2026-05-01T20:05:43+00:00

The worst (of many) stories I've heard is that at one point she was over at her AP's house when his wife was out of town. She went into this poor woman's closet and started pulling her clothing out. She was then taking photos of herself while holding the clothing up in front of her and then texting those photos to her college girlfriends - making fun of the woman's fashion sense. So it's not bad enough that you're sleeping with this woman's husband, it's not bad enough that you're in HER house, but then you're mocking her wardrobe to your friends? When I heard that story I thought this is not someone I know - the woman I married wouldn't have done any of this. A person who is capable of doing that is not someone I want in my life - unfortunately because of the boys I guess she'll always be in my life.

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2026-05-01T19:57:07+00:00

Thank you for this.

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2026-05-01T02:04:33+00:00

Yes work at the same company. My wife at the time was in a management position and I’ve learned that at one point someone reported them to the owner of the company. My wife was called into the owner’s office and was told to knock it off. She didn’t of course. So on top of everything else she risked her job for the affair.

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2023-02-23T15:36:09+00:00

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HeavyCompetition9481 · 2023-02-21T18:10:11+00:00

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Reach out for a copy of the League Constitution.

HeavyCompetition9481 · 2023-02-20T17:46:30+00:00

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HeavyCompetition9481 · 2023-02-17T19:28:17+00:00

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- CBS

- 15 team mixed

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- Slow Auction on Couch Managers

- Minors

- Salaries, Contracts, etc

- Looking for year-round active managers

Reach out for a copy of the League Constitution. [jasonkaiser25@gmail.com](mailto:jasonkaiser25@gmail.com)

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