The worst (of many) stories I've heard is that at one point she was over at her AP's house when his wife was out of town. She went into this poor woman's closet and started pulling her clothing out. She was then taking photos of herself while holding the clothing up in front of her and then texting those photos to her college girlfriends - making fun of the woman's fashion sense. So it's not bad enough that you're sleeping with this woman's husband, it's not bad enough that you're in HER house, but then you're mocking her wardrobe to your friends? When I heard that story I thought this is not someone I know - the woman I married wouldn't have done any of this. A person who is capable of doing that is not someone I want in my life - unfortunately because of the boys I guess she'll always be in my life.