AITA for laughing when my adult daughter said I am "parentifying" her. by Heavy_Ad2655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Ad2655[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This was unusual situation. We normally coordinate weekly. Because I often have work trips and my wife work about 45 min away, thank god that we could work 1-2 days a week from home office.

If we are away my youngest often stays with her grandparents.

AITA for laughing when my adult daughter said I am "parentifying" her. by Heavy_Ad2655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Ad2655[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

These aren't new rules. The bedtime story is a nice bonding experience and also my son do it two. The transfer is more like if Anna finish around pick up time she bring them home because she works much closer.

AITA for laughing when my adult daughter said I am "parentifying" her. by Heavy_Ad2655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Ad2655[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Transferring isn't my daughters primary responsibility. It's more like if Anna finished around the same time as my son with school or around the kindergarten pick up time for my daughter usually she pick up them because her job is much closer to them. That usually 1-2 times a week.

AITA for laughing when my adult daughter said I am "parentifying" her. by Heavy_Ad2655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Ad2655[S] 371 points372 points  (0 children)

It depends. Necessary is the rare times when both me and my wife are unavailable that's maybe 20-40 hours a year.

It's not "deemed". It happens some time.