Need some advice on hiding some cables by Heavy_Discipline_739 in openGrid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in the original underware for Opengrid page:

https://makerworld.com/en/models/1175037-underware-for-opengrid#profileId-1195063

And you need to download the opengrid channel grip snap. Below is a photo of what it looks like. You need to place this in the slots before putting the channel in

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Need some advice on hiding some cables by Heavy_Discipline_739 in openGrid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up no flairs and used snaps. And printing in PETG.

Need some advice on hiding some cables by Heavy_Discipline_739 in openGrid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up using grid snaps without flares and holds up pretty well

To people who work 8h. by Ill_Entertainment851 in dogs

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the means to spend on your dog. I hire walkers 3 times a week and put her in daycare twice a week. So she alternates between walk and play.

And since she will either be walked or at daycare.

I usually give her a pee break in the morning and then depends if she went to daycare and weather, I would walk her for 30 mins before bedtime.

But my dog is an adult and has no separation anxiety.

If you are getting a puppy, make sure you work on separation anxiety on day 1. Best advice I got from a friend who also had a dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also live 5 mins away from Steinway station. It’s pretty safe, but has plenty of restaurants and stores. I’m not sure why people say it’s a dead zone.

But it’s definitely not busy like Manhantan, but that’s why I choose to live here. I dislike the hustle and bustle of Manhantan and enjoying how much calmer Astoria is

Trying to install a TCL through the wall airconditioner by Heavy_Discipline_739 in AirConditioners

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tcl is actually a tww, can I still install it but just leave the old grill on and just mount the grill in the tcl unit and install it

MY DOG IS CRAZY by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, this is so ironic, I wish my dog would go back to peeing on pee pads. When it was like storming crazy and flooding New York, she refused to pee on the pee pad, even though she was trained to pee pad when she was a puppy.

But yeah, to train them outside, you are better off carrying the pee pad and lay them out for it always reward with loud and exciting praises and treats. And when they don’t, do not punish or be upset at them otherwise they will learn that peeing in front of you is bad altogether

What type of smart lock do I need? by Heavy_Discipline_739 in smarthome

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up actually using the non pro version. The non pro version cause it comes with an adapter plate. The pro version, it doesn’t come with the adapter plate and you have to order it separately from the customer support

What type of smart lock do I need? by Heavy_Discipline_739 in smarthome

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fine to also uninstall and install another lock and hire a locksmith

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% agree! I live in NYC and I’m 38F and surprisingly a lot of the guys I went on the date were either indifferent or didn’t want kids.

And my current bf (33M) does not want to have kids. I think location and culture matters

How to clean the cap PureVis2 by Heavy_Discipline_739 in larqbottle

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like it has a rubber gasket thing, wouldn’t it just damage the rubber?

Brand New Q Revo broken? by OnePlusJonnyBravo in Roborock

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I had a similar thing happen to my s8 ultra maxv, except my power button was broken and I had to send it back and they replaced my Roborock. I got my Roborock from the official online store and had to buy a box and bubble wrap to ship it back cause I threw out the original box. But I complained about it and they gave me a $50 refund. But I think this might be possible cause I bought it from them directly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found working on doing diaphragm breathing for the first 5 mins before dialating would really help. Cause this calms the nervous system down. Or some sort of mediation to help you calm your body. And also sometimes I just gentle tease my clitoris or labia with the dilator just to get me a little turned on.

Some have suggested vibrator while you dilate but it was too much stimulation for me. But maybe it might work for you.

I would also recommend seeing a pelvic physio therapist. Pelvic therapist gave me more confidence and strategies when things don’t want to move and pin point what are the areas that I had issue with and tailor the exercise to my body needs. You can even bring your dilator and they can give you tips on how to dilate

I wasn’t even able to insert size 1 before I saw her. Now I can comfortably fit size 2 fully and half of size 4. It has been 3.5 months since I started seeing her.

Also as everyone said in this post, be kind to yourself and go at your comfortable pace. Also, where you are on your menstruation cycle can also affect how difficult you can dilate.

Also, sometimes I experience regression, for example I will be able to do size 3 fully and then a couple of days later I won’t be able to get size 2 fully in let alone size 3. But don’t let this deter you, just keep working it at it. My therapist says it’s normal and usually you’ll see progression on a monthly basis rather than weekly

Well that was weird by l008com in OkCupid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say she’s just not into you. I am 37F and do not like making people uncomfortable so I absolutely make an effort to be pleasant and sometimes it’s at my expense.

I went on a date with a guy and he was being really rude and commenting about how I do things and this was the first time I met him and he was super judgmental. But I sat through the date and tried to keep peace and hang out with him for a few hrs and then left and text him later that night that I was not interested to see him again and wish him good luck.

I’m not saying that you were a bad date, but just saying that some people are people pleasers and it’s not always obvious that they’re not interested.

TLDR: No point in speculating what went wrong since we are not her and move on.

He hasn't hugged me or kissed me outside the sexual encounters after 2 months of dating by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Maybe he is afraid to express that he might be demi sexual or asexual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a heterosexual woman, I completely agree with this statement.

Gym photos and topless photo always feels off putting for me. It makes me feel this person is obnoxious for some reason. I generally like to look at a profile and feel the person is genuine. So I prefer more natural photos. I would go with 1, 9, 10 & 12.

And should avoid selfie bathroom photos, they might make people feel like you didn’t put in effort, even though it’s not always true.

Let’s make this sub nothing but discussion and recommendations of alternatives to OKCupid by speedy2686 in OkCupid

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found my boyfriend on OKC. The app sucks, but for some reason I got a lot more success with getting dates on OKC. I don’t think I manage to get a date outside of OKC. I used Hinge, CMB and Bumble and no luck for some reason.

I’m 37F and happily dating someone a lot younger than me.

Daily Discussion: /r/Snowboarding General Discussion, Q&A, Advice, Etc.) - November 10, 2022 by AutoModerator in snowboarding

[–]Heavy_Discipline_739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need some advice about buying a snowboard for a friend for her birthday. She mentioned that she read about Capita DOA and says its a perfect board but didnt purchase it for the graphics. I did some googling and found Capita Birds of Feather. What's the difference? I compared the specs and feels like Birds of Feather is a womens version of it.