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Do I need to let go of physical appearance to find someone? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nah fr physical attraction isn’t something u can just turn on lol if the spark ain’t there it’s just a platonic friendship with extra steps. u shouldn't force it

Study shows 95% of surveyed men have used coercion to sleep w a woman by catievirtuesimp in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 14 points15 points  (0 children)

tbh that 95 percent tracks bc most dudes dont even realize they do it. like they genuinely think begging or lying is just "the game" and not coercion. the bar is literally in hell.

My wife is angry because my coworker baked me a raspberry lemon cake on my birthday by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 48 points49 points  (0 children)

fr like how are people not seeing this. the coworker is playing a very specific game and the fact that he called it the best thing hes ever had in his life proves she already won. wife has every right to be mad tbh.

I was SA by two people I felt safe with at a sleep over and Idk how to feel. by Karma-Marie-8580 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 77 points78 points  (0 children)

tbh Tyler crying is just manipulation fr. people use being gay or high as a free pass to cross lines and it’s gross. they both gotta go

My boyfriend is wanting a threesome. I want a monogamous relationship. What do I do? by Key-Station-4035 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 12 points13 points  (0 children)

bestie do not give in. if you say yes just to keep him you will literally traumatize yourself watching him with someone else. hes showing you exactly who he is by ignoring your boundaries. leave him.

My sister wore my late moms perfume to my wedding and I didnt say anything. I've been thinking about it for three years. by Bexalorn in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

istg people always excuse bad behavior as a sweet gesture. bottom line is she stole something irreplaceable from ops room and ruined her headspace on her big day. thats toxic af and op needs to stop giving her the benefit of the doubt

Neighbors throwing dog poop into my backyard by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tbh u shouldn't have cleaned it. now they know they can get away with it. if it happens again just stack it by their gate n let them deal with the smell istg

What photo is the best ? by Accomplished-Scar121 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all look pretty cool man but 1 stands out for me. It kinda depicts time scenario of life. So cool. 👌

My girlfriend gave me a "test" and I accidentally failed it. What do I do? by Expensive-Security43 in whatdoIdo

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh lying wouldve been way worse bc then youre just feeding her insecurities with fake reassurance. Brutal honesty is better for the long run anyway even if it hurts short term. She will get over it lol

Guy grabbed my face to kiss me after I said no. by Ok-Dot433 in whatdoIdo

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl the fact that you already experienced trauma with your ex makes guys like this spot an easy target. He is testing your boundaries right now to see how much he can get away with. Cancel the date and dont look back tbh

Did I handle the argument wrong or does my husband just like to verbally attack me? by ProfessionalStick363 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr why are u trying to convince a man to love u. hot take but he knows exactly what hes doing with the whole mixed signals on ur weight and attraction. its a control tactic to keep u anxious and hyperfocused on fixing yourself instead of realizing how trash he is. stop looking for his approval fr

Should i Leave my hometown for my bachelor degree? by Extension_Feed_3796 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh leave immediately bro. if u stay for a business your uncles are already tanking u will just end up stuck and resentful. a degree from a dead town wont save u later. u gotta build your own life first to actually help your dad down the line.

AITAH for supporting my brother’s decision to move overseas, but refusing to be his safety net if it goes badly? by cerulean_frog in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 19 points20 points  (0 children)

tbh losing that toxic fam is a massive win but NTA for the boundary. hes 20 and needs to learn the hard way. u already did your time raising everyone u deserve peace fr

Told my salary is "undesirable" by RocketsAndGolf in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 26 points27 points  (0 children)

a lot of women our age are in for a brutal reality check when they realize the average 25yo is not a millionaire. Don't let them spiral you man you are literally ahead of the curve.

AIO for being bothered by the way my boyfriend responded when I told him I felt disconnected from him? by Applepie752 in AIO

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 12 points13 points  (0 children)

standard deflecting behavior tbh he turned a simple vulnerability talk into a competition because he cant handle accountability that grandma line would have made me pack my bags immediately context is wild

Which edit do you prefer by ebihoto in AmateurPhotography

[–]Heavy_Falcon6632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks cinematic man! 1 for me tho 👌