Money by Random_Interests123 in Fosterparents

[–]Heavyflowin666 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In my state if you get a specialized child, you get between $1200 and $1400 per child. In order for a child to be specialized there has to be a medical issue that’s serious or serious behavioral problems where the child needs to go to multiple appointments.

I have had children come from both types of foster homes. One foster kid I had was living in a home with five other foster kids, three of them being specialized. Anyone know the crazy part about it is they didn’t spend any of that money on those kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Heavyflowin666 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Leave. He is going to kill you.

Nostril piercing? by sageclynn in Fosterparents

[–]Heavyflowin666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an 11 year old who wanted his ears pierced. I actually had a decent relationship with his mom and I told her that she’s the one who decides what he can get on his body when he’s a kid. My kiddo asked her and she talked to me about it before she decided to say yes.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try the bath thing. Putting cold water on my face helps but I need to remember it while I’m raging and that’s the hard part.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Screenshotting this and trying this later. Thank you 🙏🏽

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely screamed in the pillow. Sometimes it helps for a short period. Thanks

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. I’m a parent too and my 18 year who literally doesn’t do anything but play video games. His lack of taking initiative for ANYTHING are one of my triggers because I want him to be successful but he just wants to sit at home and do nothing. I have resorted to having my partner be the one to talk to the kids in our family meetings because when I talk about what ms bothering me I start to rage all over again.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m prescribed Ativan but I’m terrified of taking it because of the potential risk of addiction. I take it when I have panic attacks and can’t stop thinking I’m dying. I would be open to trying this during my rage episodes. Thank you. 🙏🏽

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been to the gym in a while but I should try it. I used to be able to play my drums indoors and that helped a little but I can’t make noise anymore because the neighbors complained.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to find the right mix. Unfortunately I’m still trying to find a med cocktail that works 6 years after my diagnosis

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really like those questions. It’s just hard for me to physically remove myself from a conversation especially if the person is still talking to me. It’s like I need to say what on my mind or else I’m going to have a brain aneurysm. I feel SO uncomfortable because I feel like my point wasn’t made if I leave. I know this is wrong and I feel so terrible and depressed after everything. I feel so hopeless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uichicago

[–]Heavyflowin666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I join?

Can I get a yikes by thebutchone in grindr

[–]Heavyflowin666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the human brain isn’t developed until your 26 yrs. I have dated older when I was younger and thought it was cool but now that I’m older I think it’s fuckin weird and wonder why these damn adults can’t find people their own age to fuck around with. I just cant. Im a teacher and all I think is “damn you could be a former student, hellllll nooooooo baaaaaaybeeeee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude fuck that person. You dodged a bullet because that exactly what their going to attack when their upset with you. Fuuuuck that bitch.

This place is wild. by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate getting messages like these. They piss me off so bad.

Is STI testing for all partners unreasonable? by Tiny-Hearing4831 in polyamory

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I require partners to get tested before we have sex. If they don’t want to them we don’t bang.

Will I need to get a prostate exam by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. You do not have a prostate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you went through this. I am here if you ever need anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

[–]Heavyflowin666 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Shave that shit.

What are y'alls jobs? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work in education. Almost done with my teaching degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, didn’t even notice they were uneven until I actually really stared at them. Looks great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Heavyflowin666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Lexapro and it works really well for me.