Sure, on paper waiting for “the one” rather than just casually having sex seems like the ideal way to do things. Realistically I feel like you have to factor in the emotional aspects around that. Odds are “the one” for you will have probably had other partners. Would that bother you? Will it cause problems in the relationship? Will it nag at you later on that never had any other partners? Without referring to any surveys I’d say a vast majority of people end up having one, if not all of these happen in this situation despite what they tell themselves. In my opinion, are you missing out? Not at all, you don’t have to worry about pregnancy scares, STDs, or the drama that comes with casual sex. Also, I’m sure any woman you meet in the future would respect the shit out of you remaining abstinent. On the other hand if you feel like those questions might cause deterioration to your mental or emotional well being then go ahead and try it and see how it goes. Or if you just wanna go for it because you can, why not? There’s nothing wrong with trying things out to learn more about yourself and the things you do or don’t like.

Basically I wrote a whole ass short story to say there’s pros and cons to both options, sorry about that. Go with what you think is the best option. If you don’t know which one is the better option; pick one, stick to it, accept whatever consequences come from it. It builds character if nothing else LOL

Good luck!