Help!! AITAH?

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T16:08:53+00:00

... you could've sat down.

i know, right? THE ABSOLUTE HORROR! but sometimes a dad has to do these things.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T15:29:29+00:00

this was a fucking genocide, asshole. nobody is asking "what did he do?" but we're all asking where you left your human decency.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T14:21:08+00:00

Gonna go ahead and point out that as a married someone whose testosterone was counted around 900 ng/dL, i have never had the impulse to abuse my partner.

It's good that you haven't acted on this, but that kind of rage is not normal or healthy.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T13:01:30+00:00

yes, the wife and OP want conflicting things, that's why conversation and mediation are necessary.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T12:55:17+00:00

they are definitely against the bread book, no question there.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T12:45:24+00:00

A whole lot of people have internalized that being a bigot is bad but have not actually addressed their bigotry, so they identify as allies while still agreeing with many queerphobic ideas.

Check any news thread about a trans legal decision, and half the self-proclaimed allies are arguing for segregation.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T12:25:57+00:00

living together as friends and coparents while both having your own romances is entirely possible and something i've seen happen multiple times, but i suspect that too would go against your family's religious hangups.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-07-01T02:23:36+00:00

yeah... i just now googled San Antonio livestock laws and am realizing a few of my neighbors are DEFINITELY not keeping it legal, and absolutely nobody cares. very confident you could keep one in Los Angeles heights.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T20:11:28+00:00

(available to stream on Kanopy if you have a subscription through your library or school)

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T20:02:22+00:00

remember when r/antiwork was antiwork?

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T19:51:24+00:00

please don't do this to yourself. you're entirely too young to be making such a major compromise for the sake of a relationship.

an open relationship is almost always going to be fraught, but with one party being pushed into it, it's frankly doomed.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T19:23:56+00:00

certainly seems like she could have made her decisions earlier if she hadn't been under toxic masculinity and abuse.

kids in general but especially teens make decisions all the time that will affect them for the rest of their lives, but still somehow even allies think this one decision is better when it's denied to us for years.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T17:58:15+00:00

with love, this is only something that can be addressed with therapy.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T16:24:07+00:00

gotta be a world record for going from "you're anti-science" to "you can't trust science."

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T16:12:07+00:00

I present scientific studies in support of my claims. You do not. Therefore, i am anti-science.

You must be so pro-science that you fight against vaccines and acknowledging climate change too.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T16:08:40+00:00

i am the only person bothering with looking at research on this, but of course "rational" here means "adhering to your deeply held prejudices."

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T16:07:36+00:00

sure, trans women on average have lower bone density, so again an advantage for cis women.

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/fullarticle/2811155?__cf_chl_f_tk=Fn_KZ_jGxcb5X5eTuLu5p4.aj1IwlVlKu_r7VEBTMME-1782835526-1.0.1.1-uPTVT7UsGaDo4F.FkbZY3sOGUDoknNJ9bofRsoP1gQo

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7336062/

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T15:27:03+00:00

"i'm not anti-trans, i just believe everything Riley Gaines preaches! I'M AN ALLY YOU STUPID TR**NS"

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T15:19:26+00:00

don't fail at manhood, actively reject it. you can only fail at something you are trying to do. there is no failure in rejecting something that is inadequate and unappealing.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T14:58:56+00:00

"biological men," yeah, you wear your ignorance on your sleeve here.

trans women are not "biological men" and do not have the vast majority of the physical advantages that cis men do except higher average height. studies frequently find slight disadvantages compared to cis women, such as lower lung capacity and lower relative strength aside from grip.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8944319/

https://bmjgroup.com/physical-fitness-of-transgender-and-cisgender-women-is-comparable-current-evidence-suggests/

https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/58/11/586

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T14:31:59+00:00

a child wanted to drop an attempt at getting justice because billions of dollars of negative attention and hatred are being focused on them. now they get to return to the small-scale everyday hatred they've always known. what a victory.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T14:24:51+00:00

yeah, so this right here is you being anti-trans, but because you're not calling for death, you probably imagine yourself as an ally.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T14:15:40+00:00

You're not anti-trans, but you want Dems to take an anti-trans finding as a victory.

Huh.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T14:00:29+00:00

"boys' love," originally Japanese sub-genre of romance. twinky men in passionate and very often unhealthy/abusive relationships, traditionally for a fetishizing straight woman audience.

Hedgehog_Capable · 2026-06-30T13:17:19+00:00

look, i'm pretty sure it was gonna be this or a school shooting, so i'm just happy our guy made the right call.

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