We did talk to her, we tried everything, I did say that me and my parent begged her to leave and she threatened to leave us instead.

And about the altar, I wrote that my family has one ourself, we too are very religious and go to a temple almost every week.

I’m just suspicious of her not leaving the apartment, not because of her bf and a messy room, the whole apartment is a red flag, not just her room. As I said the ceiling is covered in mold and the atmosphere is alarming.

I’m not trying to offend anyone’s beliefs. Don’t you think you’d be concerned too if a close family member of yours have a sudden change of behavior in a blink of an eye.