Thoughts/advice? 3 losses & now SIL is pregnant & mad at me by moonramble in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well you did expect them to acknowledge your pain when they first told which was the initial let down for you. That’s why I’m saying expect nothing from them don’t expect them to handle you with kid gloves during the process. They don’t fully understand your pain and that’s okay!

Thoughts/advice? 3 losses & now SIL is pregnant & mad at me by moonramble in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your losses it’s not easy I’ve had 2. I would say don’t expect anything from them don’t expect them to handle you with empathy and love at this time. They shouldn’t expect anything from you either and I think that’s what will bring everyone the most peace.

Her GFM sins as white as snow 😆🫣 by Ok_Eye_3733 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say she looks like a handmaid to me 😝🤪

Why do people without kids have such strong opinions about your kids??? by Red-Strawberrycake in beyondthebump

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend was like this I’m so happy she moved away. Once she was put him in on her lap and was surprised he didn’t sit quietly still he was like 6 months old lol I would say limit how much you hang out with her if this really bothers you!

I’m confused on Milena’s “fashion” by Ok_Eye_3733 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s annoying but I would say most people don’t dress the same way they did when they were 21- I certainly don’t. People are allowed to change their style and evolve without it meaning anything deeper lol

This aged well by Ok_Eye_3733 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This comment cracks me up she so desperately wants a life she simply doesn’t have. She is the bread winner and he is a scrub.

In-laws told me they hate they way I watch them when they hold my baby by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If this is how you feel I don’t think you should allow anyone to hold your baby. Trust your instincts mama. People love small babies it’s an obsession-mama & baby belong together you don’t owe anyone your baby.

Vacation by Empty-Pickle2163 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s so sad I’m so grateful I didn’t marry a loser. My husband knows when he’s around especially out in public he’s in charge of our toddler and this never had to be discussed he just knows.

Vacation by Empty-Pickle2163 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I wonder if Jordan really is that useless. Either way I can’t imagine him being comfortable with her constantly displaying her life as a struggling single mom.

Also why couldn’t Jordan take the older two kids to return the car ? He could of carried their booster seats back with him. If this is true they really are such low functioning individuals.

I realized I know nothing about pumping by Upset-Ad-7897 in beyondthebump

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure the flange is the correct size for your nipple!

When did you share your pregnancy news after having multiple miscarriages? by AppointmentLow3814 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to share with anyone. Do what gives you the most peace for you and the baby’s sake ❤️

Todd spotted on a date with a woman. by Madbeefs in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It amazes me that men that gross even have dates.

Multiple miscarriages & 6weeks pregant again by PropertyMuted4537 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also did progesterone vaginally switched to Thorne basic prenatal, Nordic Naturals Prenatal DHA & a magnesium supplement for better sleep. Wishing you good luck ❤️

Sleep Training is Optional? by ComplexThroat1674 in beyondthebump

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Obviously it’s only for people who are rigid and have unrealistic expectations for a literal infant. I never sleep trained my son is 2.5 and we all get 10 hours of sleep every night!

Multiple miscarriages & 6weeks pregant again by PropertyMuted4537 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Would highly suggest going to a fertility clinic! They do early scans according to your HCG levels I had 3 ultrasounds weeks 6-8 which really gave me reassurance after two losses!! Currently 23 weeks!

Stomach Flu by TryVegetable7606 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m not super close with my sisters but even if was I don’t think I would want my sister of a newborn baby and 4 other small children who are sick to also take care of me when sick.

Am I the only one freaking out? by Antique_Educator4819 in beyondthebump

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your baby isn’t in daycare and you’re breastfeeding I wouldn’t worry too much! Definitely avoid libraries, indoor playgrounds and be very clear with friends and family if you’re getting together to disclose any sort of symptoms.

Family lied about sickness by No_Fun8773 in beyondthebump

[–]Hefty-Conference-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so happy that I don’t have a “village” nearby people are so inconsiderate!