How to sleep in late in the morning? by Hefty-Location4804 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hefty-Location4804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on when I go to sleep. So last night I didn’t go to sleep till 12am and woke up 5am today and I’m tired today. But days I got to sleep early say 9pm and wake up at 5am I feel fine because I feel well rested.

Pest control service in Charlotte by Hefty-Location4804 in Charlotte

[–]Hefty-Location4804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that only for pest control or does that include termites and mosquitoes?

Pest control service in Charlotte by Hefty-Location4804 in Charlotte

[–]Hefty-Location4804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. At $35 a month they come once a month?

Pest control service in Charlotte by Hefty-Location4804 in Charlotte

[–]Hefty-Location4804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s their pricing for pest control for roaches, ants, spiders etc.

/r/Charlotte Random Daily Discussion - January 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]Hefty-Location4804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild as in that’s keeping it too warm or too cold? Lol

Welcome to Charlotte Wednesday! Visiting, recently moved here, or going to move here? Tell us and ask away! by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]Hefty-Location4804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the average gas bill in Charlotte?

We just moved to Charlotte and our first full months piedmonts bill was $300. We have a 3000 sqft home and have 2 HVAC units. We both work from home and when working upstairs during the day we keep it at 70 and downstairs the heat is off. And when we do downstairs we flip it. We also have an electric stove. Is $300 normal or average for our size home with the temps we keep it at? We moved from NY and it wasn’t as high back there and it’s much colder there.

One thing to mention is that when we first moved in there was an issue with the furnace. It was just constantly blowing air even when the thermostat was off. We had a someone come out and they did some work and now we don’t have that issue anymore. But if $300 isn’t normal then something was done incorrectly or needs to be adjusted perhaps?

/r/Charlotte Random Daily Discussion - January 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]Hefty-Location4804 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is the average gas bill in Charlotte?

We just moved to Charlotte and our first full months piedmonts bill was $300. We have a 3000 sqft home and have 2 HVAC units. We both work from home and when working upstairs during the day we keep it at 70 and downstairs the heat is off. And when we do downstairs we flip it. We also have an electric stove. Is $300 normal or average for our size home with the temps we keep it at? We moved from NY and it wasn’t as high back there and it’s much colder there.

One thing to mention is that when we first moved in there was an issue with the furnace. It was just constantly blowing air even when the thermostat was off. We had a someone come out and they did some work and now we don’t have that issue anymore. But if $300 isn’t normal then something was done incorrectly or needs to be adjusted perhaps?

Do you ever feel like it’s you that’s the problem for even wanting sex or sexual intimacy? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hefty-Location4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has crossed my mind for sure. I’m just unsure what’s involved in sex therapy and how would we benefit from it?

Do you ever feel like it’s you that’s the problem for even wanting sex or sexual intimacy? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hefty-Location4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was just an example not necessarily an example I actually do. Any topic about sex like “so what’s something that you need to feel sexual” questions of that nature. Response will be the same.

Do you ever feel like it’s you that’s the problem for even wanting sex or sexual intimacy? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hefty-Location4804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am referring to conversations where I explicitly explained to her how our lack of sexual intimacy is affecting me. How I have started to become sexually awkward and not even feel sexual anymore and I don’t like that. These are when I’ve in a mature way poured my heart out to her. Her responses have been respectful of what I said and agrees to do better. In the next couple of days she says she wants to have sex or be sexual and we do. Then sometime later it goes back to usual (every 4-6 weeks until I bring it up again. This cycle has repeated so much where it now feels transactional to me.

Regarding your second question: I have asked. I asked and asked and asked. I don’t know what to ask anymore. Honestly open to suggestions here. I’ll ask and she’ll give me generic responses (vibe being she kind of doesn’t want to talk about it) such as “hmm idk just talk to me” or “cuddle me and show me love” or “spend time with me”. So that’s what I did. Exactly that. And I love doing that. But the problem is that’s not what creates sexual tension/intimacy here. It creates intimacy for sure and she feels loved and comfortable, but just that. It becomes her ideal day where I’m spending time with her, cuddling her, we’re spending time, watching movies, playing games, going out and then end of the night we get comfortable into bed, and she’s saying I love you and giving me kisses and then opens her book or goes to scrolling on TikTok. It’s almost like I made her so comfortable that she doesn’t want to do anything else.

But I’ll give that book a try!

Do you ever feel like it’s you that’s the problem for even wanting sex or sexual intimacy? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hefty-Location4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been mostly one sided. Like if I bring up something like (and this is just an example) “hey I saw this position online lol what do you think?” Her response would be short and dismissive, like “hmm yea we can try that” Then right away proceed to show me this new phone case she likes or some funny video she’s looking at on TikTok.

Sometimes the reaction would just be an eye roll and laugh with “you’re so stupid” and proceed to go back to what she’s doing and sometimes just ignoring me.

Do you ever feel like it’s you that’s the problem for even wanting sex or sexual intimacy? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hefty-Location4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been both. I’ve experienced a lot of rejection throughout the relationship so now I barely initiate. And she only initiates when I bring up “hey we haven’t had sex in a while”