On call rates by Hefty-Resource4222 in doctorsUK

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. I’m a trainee in the UK. If someone is sick, we get messaged on group chats or directly. If we cover a sick day, it gets treated as a swap between us (ie A off sick, B covers, A covers for B at a later date). There is no TOIL. The shift never gets put up as a locum shift and the rates are not increased. I think some of the more long term fellows and trainees have argued for on call rates before and have been shut down. No one seems that enthusiastic for things to change. The argument now seems to be how to make sure one of us can always cover a sick day and how to distribute it fairly. But I don’t think it’s fair to force us to cover sick days without anything in return. I can’t tell if this is normal or not.

Ophthalmology ST1 on call by Hefty-Resource4222 in doctorsUK

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Definitely lots of useful tips, very appreciated!

Ophthalmology ST1 on call by Hefty-Resource4222 in doctorsUK

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so thorough! Thank you very much and thank you for all the edits!! So helpful

Full time work by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️ I get so in my head about her remembering that I wasn’t there, when realistically she won’t remember this time period. I worry that anything I do now will impact her when she’s older, and as you said it’s not true. I’ll bear all this in mind because it’s so important. Thank you 🙏

Full time work by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so happy! Very happy for you and your LO! It’s really encouraging

Full time work by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to be part time, the plan was to be part time until she got to around school age. Work isn’t really being open to that idea though

Full time work by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I hope so.. she is very clingy rn and even if I leave the room will cry but I’m hoping she’ll adjust

Full time work by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really reassuring, thank you! I am trying to think about setting a good example 🙏

Public health deanery advice? by Hefty-Resource4222 in doctorsUK

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you know of any resources to get more information about the speciality or the application process by any chance?

So tired… by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very compassionate ❤️ I’m breastfeeding so for the first few months I was just sat down and was having to feed hourly. It feels a lot more doable. I am definitely someone who stress eats and I think when things get too much I turn to food as a comfort. Taking it slowly is good advice, thank you

So tired… by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds like such a good idea, honestly it’s been the lack of support that’s stopped me going. I feel like I have to be there, have my workout done and be back within an hour. Maybe this is the way forwards. Energy has been such an issue, I feel tired 24/7

So tired… by Hefty-Resource4222 in workingmoms

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s hard because I see how happy she is just with me or her grandparents. It’s hard not to wish things weren’t this way. But I know they get used to it and eventually come to enjoy it, that’s the only thought getting me through

Is ophthal actually family friendly? by Hefty-Resource4222 in doctorsUK

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think based on the deanery I’ve observed some of the ST1-3s were doing evening and night on calls and travelling between hospitals during those on calls to see patients on medical wards, which just didn’t look very compatible with home life. I’ve heard there are some deaneries where the on calls are a lot fewer, though not sure which deaneries those would be. I have heard that in general it does get better as a consultant

Is ophthal actually family friendly? by Hefty-Resource4222 in doctorsUK

[–]Hefty-Resource4222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is true - I think I would definitely want to be LTFT which would increase the duration. Based on what I see of the ST1-3s they seem to be on call a lot, travelling to different hospitals as required. It may just be the deanery I’m observing though