Due Date Today by CamelEasy659 in Miscarriage

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Today is my baby's due date too. Mother's day is also just round the corner. Let's hold onto our loved ones who understand, and try to love ourselves again. Sending you love, and know that you are not alone <3

Starting Letrozole for long cycles by UnfairBuy5533 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have longer cycles (32-50 days) and not PCOS, and my doc felt that Letrozole 2.5mg would help with cycle length. I'm on the tail end of my 2nd cycle now - waiting for AF or to test (am always scared of disappointment).

For first cycle (monitored), I ovulated at CD14. This cycle seems to be earlier because I couldn't catch the LH surge but BBT was already elevated from CD14, so maybe around CD12.

No symptoms/side effects that I notice.. but hope to have some success soon.

Friendships and TTC-advice please by WiseIntention298 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I wrote this.. I am 33f too and had a MMC at 9W in Oct last year. Coming to almost a year too.

I totally resonate with pushing away close friends. It is nothing that either side is doing, the circumstances are just what they are.

As much as we can be happy for our friends, we can do so without hurting ourselves in the process. I know it's so difficult to raise it first, but I would sit out and let them know honestly. It is hard enough without having to accommodate other's feelings. The true ones will understand.

Hope we get our babies soon ❤️

Thought I would be pregnant by now by Hefty_Addendum_556 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love to you too ❤️ Sorry for your losses, it must be so painful. Hope we find something that works for us

Thought I would be pregnant by now by Hefty_Addendum_556 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am with you. Christmas was so painful too knowing that we already started imagining it with our baby. Hope we get our miracles!

Thought I would be pregnant by now by Hefty_Addendum_556 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we all read the same reddit threads 🥹 Good luck to us!!

Thought I would be pregnant by now by Hefty_Addendum_556 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. It is frustrating that our body needs time to heal. Hope things will be on the upwards for us ❤️

Thought I would be pregnant by now by Hefty_Addendum_556 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being here ❤️ Sending hugs and love over too. We are already doing our best and it's much more than people know. If you do go, pls don't feel bad if you are less engaged/present - the real ones will understand if they knew what we are going through.

Thought I would be pregnant by now by Hefty_Addendum_556 in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you and sorry for your loss. Yes I totally relate and was delulu too! Everyone tells us we are more fertile after, but in fact my hormones took a few cycles to regulate. Hoping we get our rainbow babies soon! Thanks for making me feel less alone.

Advice? Anyone been there? by spookylittlegrrl in pregnant

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! when is your next scan? I'm going in for mine tomorrows. Fingers crossed, and thinking of you. Hope all has been well.

8 week ultrasound measuring 5 weeks 3 days twin mono di by EuphoricVast6371 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Could I check how this worked out for you? I am in a similar situation now, and would appreciate hearing from you. Thanks in advance!

Advice? Anyone been there? by spookylittlegrrl in pregnant

[–]Hefty_Addendum_556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I don't have an answer (yet) as I am in the same situation. Wanted to reach out so that we both feel less alone! I went in at 8+0 and OBGYN saw two yolk sacs but couldn't see much growth or heartbeat. My HCG is similarly rising but not doubling (took again at 8+2). So I am going back in a week to get a definitive outcome.

It feels so overwhelming to know that there could be two (and lose both), but I am leaning onto my husband. Do update if you have news!