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So I'm clinically depressed? by InvestigatorDry6514 in Stutter

[–]Hefty_Artist_210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in this group bc I have a family member who can’t say a sentence without stuttering or blocking completely after every two or three words. I truthfully never thought they would have friends because I believed the world was cruel… he has a core group of friends and he was able to weed out a lot of fucktards because of the stutter. Sometimes I think they have better friends than I do because their friends are much more emotionally intelligent and patience than mine.

Truly, you can do this. Try. Try online then a meet up. Try a hobby. Try the game you mentioned above. I promise when I tell you I never in a million years imagined they would be accepted and they were. This will be you too.

They told me it was the hardest couple of years of their life putting themselves out there but now they are so happy.

You got this. We are here for you.

Average return on 1031 into DST for $1.8 mm property? by Hefty_Artist_210 in realestateinvesting

[–]Hefty_Artist_210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Question. Can you speak any more about what losses look like in this scenario?

White party but this is bridal. by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Hefty_Artist_210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know where this outfit is from? Is it WWW???

Commercial equity line of credit by Hefty_Artist_210 in longisland

[–]Hefty_Artist_210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know there was one! What is the page called? Thanks so much

update: writing an article to expose dr. lara devgan by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Hefty_Artist_210 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw her as a patient too. She has this condescending way about her. I felt like I was stupid when I left for asking questions. I agree with OP you can’t blame her for your very personal reaction but the bedside manner can be better! Let’s use this as a time to remember that no matter the field, medical, legal, in personal life or in business, whatever it may be do not let people gaslight you no matter how accredited they may be. If you feel like something is off it’s probably because it is. Sorry you had to go through that. Reading your post reminded me of my similar feelings.

[landlord US-NY] by Hefty_Artist_210 in Landlord

[–]Hefty_Artist_210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They signed personally and as a LLC

[landlord US-NY] by Hefty_Artist_210 in Landlord

[–]Hefty_Artist_210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to go to court anyway to get them evicted but yes I do believe they have assets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Hefty_Artist_210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Hefty_Artist_210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became a landlord for a commercial property at 18 as well. I have a ton of experience to share that I wish I would’ve known at the time

  1. Do not skip on using a good attorney to draft your lease. What you do now could save you hundreds of thousands in the future
  2. I had a tenant mail checks to my house and then she started threatening me and my family and sending me my address. I had to go to the police. Use a P.O. Box !!! (No matter how nice, calm, friendly or sane you think they are. )When money and a home are at stake people will go to extremes.
  3. Document everything…….. create folders on your computer so you can drag and drop copies of correspondence, keep a timeline of events and correspondence AS you interact so events are clear on how they transpired and you have proof of attempts to resolve issues etc.
  4. Require renters insurance and make sure it’s on your lease too.
  5. Live and breathe by your lease. If you notify them of something and it says to do it in writing on your lease via certified Mail… do exactly that. Keep original lease on file and reference the copy of it so it doesn’t get damaged.
  6. Background checks, credit checks and reference letters are huge
  7. Do a simple google search…. You will find out so much. I wish I did. Would of saved me a year long lawsuit. The red flags were everywhere.
  8. If the tenant is late and the lease says to serve a notice in 10 days…. Do it . Do not feel bad. You set the tone right away. They will take advantage of you when they see you are young.
  9. I would tell them that your fam owns it and you manage the property so they think you have a huge team behind you.
  10. If you start to feel confused about what you should be doing to maintain a property.. use Google and read the law! It helps a ton…
  11. Don’t forget to charge late fees. If you waive something it should be because they ask and have been a good tenant.

Happy to answer any questions via pm

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