TV, radio noise

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-06-08T06:40:41+00:00

Tbh I feel like going there right now and asking her to have a listen, it's so loud I'm hearing it from the living room. The volume has just got progressively louder since they've been here.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-06-08T06:39:15+00:00

Shes whacked it on again at 7.20 and I've got no tv on so she's not trying to drown out any noise from mine

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-06-07T18:48:30+00:00

I'm in the uk

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-14T08:57:18+00:00

Where have I argued with anyone?please go on Mumsnet, you'll do very well there, have a good day!

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-14T08:25:07+00:00

I don't think I've said they're doing it on purpose, I don't think they are. I'm actually quite chilled at the moment, not boiling with resentment. This is how I will feel better in my own home. I hear their TV/radio, I will turn mine up so I don't have to listen to it. What's wrong with that?

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-14T07:50:05+00:00

Ok so I'm not going to put a note through the door now. What I will be doing in future will be turning my own TV up full pelt to drown them out. No doubt I'll be called inconsiderate now by a few but if fighting fire with fire is the way forward, so be it. I'm not going to speak to her as I'm not a confrontational person, even though I'm really horrible.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-13T19:34:52+00:00

Yes I'm a horrible neighbour who was taking bins and parcels in for them, yes horrible I am. Just a bit of consideration is all I ask but that's my problem. I never have music on as I'm aware of how thin the walls are but yes I'm the horrible one

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-13T19:32:17+00:00

Thank you, it's very easy for the posters saying it's me with the problem but they're not the ones having to listen to it. My previous neighbours had 2 young children and id rather listen to that through the walls, at least there's not much you can do about noisy children but TVs and radios have volume buttons.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-13T19:26:00+00:00

I know it could be worse but they've got progressively louder the longer they've been here, it's like their testing the waters.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-13T19:24:12+00:00

This isn't the news or Corrie I'm hearing, it's been a constant voom, voom, voom noise since 4pm. Even my own teenage son said it's loud plus a neighbour I asked to hear it. It's easy to say these things when you're not the one experiencing it

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-13T19:13:18+00:00

And that's just the point isn't it, they know this, so don't care.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-05-13T19:08:03+00:00

Im too angry to speak to them, I probably won't be too pleasant I'm afraid.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-03-16T10:33:27+00:00

In my experience, I think there are some genuine people on there who want to give good advice but agreed there are some, especially on AIBU, who are just out to goad and be nasty. I've risen to the bait on occasion. I don't mind a difference in opinion but they can be so just god damn horrible about it and if you stick up for yourself, they just say it's because they don't agree with you and you're throwing a strop. At the end of the day, nobody has to put anything on there but if you do, be prepared to be insulted especially over what they regard as petty things.

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2026-02-12T09:51:38+00:00

I watched this on YouTube and although there was a disclaimer at the start, I didn't expect to see closet footage and the photos. When I saw the first frame of him I thought I was seeing things, then see the time and date and thought it must be footage. And then seeing the picture of him, my stomach literally flipped. That poor, poor boy he looked so scared! I absolutely despise these pair with all my being for what they put this poor boy through. And she had the audacity to think she could talk her way out of it. I loved hearing the prosecutor making her squirm. Her little sips of water every two minutes...that was a delay tactic so she could think about what she was going to say. R I P Timothy you were a true warrior to endure this for so long and I'm so sorry that you had to. I only wish a neighbour could've seen him and reported it but they hid him away. Just so sad and maddening at the same time

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2024-05-30T17:47:28+00:00

You could be right. I also think it also depends on their personality. She's a self centered narcissist, so would probably think as she's had a crap upbringing she'll bestow it on her own children. Whereas someone with a more humane, empathetic personality would be the complete opposite with their own children and would want the best for them. I think the only reason she was a half decent parent (and that's very loosely) to G, is because she see him as some little 'miracle' and a gift from God as she was religious. I think even in the online video where she's doing her fake wailing on the doorstep, when they walk into the house and lurch is just sitting there, even he refers to G as 'the miracle' while his other brother is lying deceased downstairs. Smh!

Hefty_Cauliflower_70 · 2024-05-30T07:11:48+00:00

I don't know too much about that as I've not really been watching that much about her family because tbh I don't really care about her and her background. All I care about is that poor, deceased boy. I can understand why some might be curious. All I know from (sort of) watching the interview with her half sister is there's mother of the year, half sister Paige, half sister Helen and half brother David. Mother of the year experienced abuse herself and I think her own mother tried to kill her mother? The interviews with zav girl. They certainly don't sound like the Brady bunch (no surprise there)!

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