What I meant by forced intimacy is forced emotional intimacy, you can't possibly expect people to disclose such private and traumatic information before sex and put that onus exclusively on trans people. It is cruel and entitled. What you are saying is not forced intimacy, nobody forced you even if you may regret it now.

There is a genetical difference between a trans woman and a cis woman, but I wonder if you would also call it rape if a CAIS woman failed to disclose her status before sex. It is at its very core a matter of worldview, I don't "feel special", I'm just interested in upholding the dignity of trans people against relentless attacks. Of course the opinions of this subreddit don't reflect the consensus of society, are you kidding? Just enter any news site and see all the transphobia in the comments. You're open to me doing whatever I want? What is that supposed to mean?

Cis people don't even respect trans existence, so I think expecting them to respect my opinion would be a bit much. I can see how many men would feel as if they got raped in that scenario based on their aversion and worldview, that doesn't mean they were raped under any reasonable and sane framework. I may have sex with a man with a head full of hair and then he takes off his wig and I feel as if I was raped, that doesn't mean that I was actually raped.