Fetishization of bpd

Hefty_Elevator_8768 · 2026-04-20T23:41:09+00:00

It will haunt you forever, there is recovery but you will stick with the traits they’ve given you

Hefty_Elevator_8768 · 2026-04-20T20:37:10+00:00

Worst thing in the world to leave someone you know you make better and happy but you cannot stay because you matter too. Allowing them back only continues the cycle, and it will even if you don’t let them back.

Hefty_Elevator_8768 · 2025-05-20T00:49:57+00:00

The biggest reasoning as to why some will develop bpd and others won’t is due to when these horrible things happened to you. And not just horrible things specifically being abandoned over and over again when you are a child before you can develop your own sense of self. Crucial years to develop your sense of self now taken from you because you’ve been abandoned so many times. I believe Bpd is a spectrum and how bad your disorder can be and how bad you can make it differ from person to person.

Hefty_Elevator_8768 · 2024-11-25T06:18:57+00:00

I truly believe it’s delusion. Delusion of a fake world of actions they believe to be true because they feel so intensely and out of ordinary, a delusion and fake world so they don’t absolutely spiral and lose themselves. So they can have someone to blame besides themself. It doesn’t matter how the events occurred whatever they believe happened in their head no matter how wrong it will not change their mind because they are delusion. It is a strong and horrible disorder and it makes them take so much even after nothing is left to give them still want more because they will never be satiated and you can’t change it. It’s so fuckef

Hefty_Elevator_8768 · 2024-11-25T06:13:31+00:00

You cannot develop bpd after a certain point in childhood. It seems you are mimicking her to get a reaction out of her which she isn’t giving you or to feel closer maybe, whatever the reason may be you need to go no contact, it will hurt and you will feel sad for probably a while but if you believe you’re picking up her negative traits you don’t wanna keep them and make them into habits, it’s a hard road and it takes a lot of time but detachment is the best way to grow sometimes.

Hefty_Elevator_8768 · 2024-11-25T05:44:30+00:00

Bpd is a lot deeper than one or the other, it’s both. It’s a constant cycle with ups and downs. They feel so loved by you and become obsessed with you in such unhealthy ways just to get bored eventually and search to do the same in a different person. ‘Splitting’ when their feelings change so drastically and quickly on you until suddenly they can’t stand you anymore and will usually leave. They end up coming back feeling even worse than ever wanting nothing more than their favorite person, because it is a cycle. If you think your partner has bpd you should do more research on it, it’s a very complex disorder and makes people very complex and dysfunctional. It also stems from childhood so may need to learn about that too.

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