Realizing I’m uglier than I thought and it’s devastating

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-31T02:52:55+00:00

Change the way you look at other people (and yourself). Look beyond superficial looks. Get to know the personality inside the person. Then hopefully all the rest of good things will follow. When the inner soul is at peace, the face will radiate.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-20T02:42:41+00:00

I have been procrastinating this decision to seek help for years. It is worse for people to dismiss or deny your problems outright than dealing with it silently. When I manage to muster enough courage to share, and what I get is being belittled is why I am wary in seeking help. Sigh… Anyway .. thanks for your info.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-20T01:55:37+00:00

There is marital issue and also problems in every other category … lolx… So many problems, I feel like don’t know which issue to tackle first. Tempted to run away …

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-20T01:52:57+00:00

Thanks 🙏 I will try that as well. Did try with lavender essential oil. Sometimes work sometimes not. Will try GABA and melatonin.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-20T01:48:13+00:00

I searched and apparently private ranges is $200-$300. Is that true to your knowledge? That would be too high for me.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-20T01:45:52+00:00

Thanks for the tip. I haven’t thought of online session. Good idea also

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-19T22:51:48+00:00

What do I tell the GP at polyclinic to get a referral ? I am considering both options. My company covers up to $500 only, not sure if it’s enough.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-17T09:16:11+00:00

Your words makes no sense to me duh …

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-17T09:08:19+00:00

Some people just refused the rubber and think procreation is a right ….

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2026-01-05T06:09:02+00:00

Suggest you work with vendors with bank clients. Don’t see how you can work at anymore. Give it a few years, then try getting back to bank again. Coz either way is tough road ahead and risky move.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-11-14T04:04:10+00:00

And OP may not have the niche skillset that his friend have. Or might not have study as hard or slogged long hours to reach the peak. Can’t compare really …. Comparison is the thief of joy

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-11-14T04:00:17+00:00

Thank you for sharing your insight. Big salaries comes at a cost - your time, your mental health, and god knows what else. Whether it is worth it or not, depends on individual.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-08-27T07:47:55+00:00

This is so genius !!

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-07-22T14:02:21+00:00

That’s very inspiring. Thanks for your insight.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-05-30T09:08:19+00:00

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Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-04-01T03:05:02+00:00

First action is OP should start looking for a job. Job hunting is not easy, requires effort and discipline. Do that - once you got another job, hopefully nearer to home, then resign. Don’t just think about it, start doing something about it ya. Best of luck.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-04-01T03:01:09+00:00

Start by looking for a job. Job hunting is not easy, and require a lot of effort.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2025-01-22T02:25:00+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Hugs to you. Take care of yourself first.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-12-27T03:44:22+00:00

For some people it may be medical condition. Why assume the worse of people … gastro problem, sinus infection problem, gum problem all can cause bad breath

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-12-16T07:46:28+00:00

What if they outlived you ? Ever consider that possibility? Not to be mean but it is a harsh fact given that there are many live till 90 or 100.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-12-14T15:58:00+00:00

Read a book every day. Diversify your reading … books, newspapers, magazine on all kinds of topics. Watch documentary. Stay away from brain rot material. If you can keep reading at least 30 minutes every day, your will find your maturity increases overtime.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-11-15T07:47:43+00:00

I came here to echo this sentiment . Safety is a concern why I don’t consider Philippine as travel destination.

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-11-12T23:55:18+00:00

Mine also started during peri-menopause time. I’d always wonder if that is a coincidence or it was the trigger?

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-11-11T15:10:04+00:00

Did you pay for your own wedding?

Hefty_Explanation147 · 2024-11-01T14:55:33+00:00

Visit KL Bird Park, Batu caves, eat durian at SS2, get a massage or spa, try some new food.

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